LiveYourDream
Master Don Juan
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- From the Heart and Soul, of a Woman
Then consider that this time will be easier than that one. This time you are just detoxing an ex and not hard drugs too! If you were able to do that, certainly you can do this!The thing is a quit drugs right at another time that I broke up with an oneitis. So I already associate breakups with the feeling of coming off drugs and then I have to deal with the ACTUAL feeling of coming off drugs.
Oh yeah, today is my X's birthday. She is having it at a place that I recommended when we were still together.
If I'm being a total AFC puzzy just say so.
Quit beating yourself up! Don't slyly use the fact that I said that, to beat yourself up with it either. Break-ups are rough. If you had no heart it would be a different story. Be glad you have one. The life of a conscienceless person, one without caring and loving of others is not a life you'd want. It's a difficult existence to put it mildly, in my observation.
You have a heart. Be glad. It hurts. That's ok. It is not forever. Have you ever broken a bone? Your motion is limited for a while as it repairs and heals, from the inside out. Eventually you are back doing what you did. This is like that in some ways. Don't keep nagging yourself about having a broken bone. Change your focus. See what you can do to assist the healing and entertain yourself and live your life the best way possible, while it heals.
It's not some horrible failure. It's life in action. It's what happens. Don't make it exceptionally personal. Be kind. Day by day, move forward.