SeymourCake
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Zyzz
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
JohnChops
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he wasnt even big, he was a drug abuser and alcoholic, but god damn he was a funny guy and he lived a care-free life.
i just hate the movement of all these skinny "aesthetic" kids he started. but whatever.
i just hate the movement of all these skinny "aesthetic" kids he started. but whatever.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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user43770
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FairShake said:
I don't know much about the guy, but it's obvious that you don't either. You were quick to step up on a pedestal, though. A lot of "fair shakes" you give, I'm sure.
Man on Fire
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lol. repFairShake said:
Bokanovsky
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Well, if he looks like a fag, talks like a fag, poses like a fag and wears makeup like a fag...Just saying.TyTe`EyEz said:
[S]alvatore
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The only positive thing about him is that he has inspired many teens to start weight training. On the other hand, he was full of insecurity.
- Didn't know how to train or eat properly, so he made fvck all progress while he was natural
- Started using steroids because of his lack of progress, and impatience/wanting everything yesterday
- As soon as he went off, he lost his gains. This made him think that he always needed to be blasting to keep his gains. This is partly true, if you stop using hormones, your gains will eventually disappear. But you can maintain them if you know how to eat and train correctly, he did not know.
- Had plastic surgery, and claimed having "God like" genetics
- Rampant drug use (Cocaine, ecstacy, cigarettes) which caused his heart failure (It was not congenital)
His brother is the same, would a confident man need plastic surgery?
http://zyzzcentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/transformationchestbrah.jpg
- Didn't know how to train or eat properly, so he made fvck all progress while he was natural
- Started using steroids because of his lack of progress, and impatience/wanting everything yesterday
- As soon as he went off, he lost his gains. This made him think that he always needed to be blasting to keep his gains. This is partly true, if you stop using hormones, your gains will eventually disappear. But you can maintain them if you know how to eat and train correctly, he did not know.
- Had plastic surgery, and claimed having "God like" genetics
- Rampant drug use (Cocaine, ecstacy, cigarettes) which caused his heart failure (It was not congenital)
His brother is the same, would a confident man need plastic surgery?
http://zyzzcentral.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/transformationchestbrah.jpg
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.