yrock181's 100 approach journal

[yrock181]

hey guys, i been meaning to start an approach journal for quite a while just like some of you here. i decided to start it now because i keep on putting it off and saying that i'll do it tommorrow so i decided that tommorrow isn't guaranteed.

I been in this site for a few years. it has help me improve alot from going to a dateless person to dating a few around the same time.

But getting straight down to the point, i been stuck for a while around getting 7's and 6's. i want to improve and eliminate the fear of approaching completely. So my plan is too complete 100 approaches so that i could get out of the comfort zone that i'm in.

My Goal's:
- Be able to approach girls in any situation.
- Conquer procrastination
- Try to be more outgoing and sociable.
- Learn to stop caring what other people think.

So i will start doing my approaching today monday march 26 2007, so if you guys wish to comment or give me any tips please do i'm open to any helpful opinions.

 

[yrock181]

Hey guys, i know that i haven't been posting much so far but, i been trying to do my approaches. so far i have a approached 11/100 so far i have gotten any numbers yet . i don't remember most of the details from my earlier approaches but i will try to keep up with my postings so that i don't fall behind but i'll put a few.

Yesterday i approached a hb7
Me: Wow i could tell that you came out of an interesting class (sarcastically)
Her: Not really, i just came from the library sleeping.
Me: Wow i see that you like to sleep in public places, I really don't know how you could do that.
her: I gotten comfortable.
me: Wow i bet you got tired of the library and you are going to try something new like the park(with some kino).
her : lol a (while hitting me playfully).

we went on for another minute but then we just left without getting her number which i should have done.

I also approached some girl today at the gym but it really was a vague conversationg and i just left. i seem to disqualify myself because the girls are older.

Quick quiestion which one do you guys prefer indirect or direct openers?

 

[yrock181]

Well so far my approaching is going ok so far but im not getting to deep in, i keep holding back i don't know why especially with some good looking chicks. but so far i have 18 approaches out of a hundred.

Last night i headed out with one of my brothers to a party which there i pulled a few chicks. i approached about 4 girls but couldn't get any numbers there because i chickened out at the end.

The first girl a dance with was a hb7
me: IT looks like you dance alot.
her: Not really i don't like going to parties that much.
Me: really im surprised. You look kind of wild especially because you wear your hair like that.
The conversation kept going on for a few until the song finally stopped and then i spoke to her later on.

Another approach last night was with a hb7.5 she had a nice butt which is why i wanted to talk to her in the beginning. So i saw her near the girls bathroom which i was standing near by since the mens bathroom was broken so me and my brother were there.

Her: Are you guys waiting for the bathroom.
me: why would we be standing here if we weren't?
her: I don't know, you should let me go ahead.
me: nah i need to take a dump(with a big smile)
her: ill
me: Yea i want to get the bathroom smelling good for you because i know that you like it.
her: are you trying to play me.
me no why would i do that
her:because you let him go first
me: i don't want my brother to sufficate after i use the bathroom.
her: (she hit me playfully while laughing)

But then the conversation ended after that because she went in the bathroom.

but so far i realized that i give up too easily and that i should follow through with my approaches and make that they are not interested.
if you guys want you could give me some advice.

18/100.
My goals this week:
-Practice openers
-get some numbers
-approach hotter girls

 

[KingBeef]

good for you man....you're makin progress

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Dude, u are doing amazing, ur sense of humor and interactions are very very good. U make them interesting....i'm def learning from this.

But 11 approaches already? Jeez man...ur on the ball.haha.

In terms of direct or indirect....

Indirect might be easier considering the fact that girls can't tell if ur hitting on them or not, so their defense is down and can immediately do some rapport/conversation...Plus, u might be able to game more easily.

Direct is harder, since ur already showing ur intentions off the bat, and some girls might put more resistence(Being caught off guard or ASSUMING that ur just like any other symp who goes up to her)...but I believe its more powerful, if u got ur inner game right....then they'll melt.

All up to you really.....i try more on the direct side, but it could be different for u.

I will keep up to date with u man.....im also getting some practice in.