"You're too into yourself" WTF does that mean?

[Alphathree]

Originally posted by Jizz
Im going through the arrogant phase atm, ive had two people tell me im very arrogant, and one gal tell me to stop being a sarcastic knob, and that im acting stupid, definatly think im on the verge of this gal telling me im arrogant

how do i move on from the arrogant phase into the just self confident?

ill happily admit right now that im putting this arrogance on a bit and im telling people im great and stuff, mainly because the more i say it out loud the more i believe it!

i know this wrong and i was wondering if anyone has any expierence or advice on this matter and how long will it take for this phase to pass and how to make it pass?

thanks

Just remember most of the folks on this message board aren't getting laid.

They think you have to put on a frickin show to get a woman to like you. You don't. You don't even have to be explicitly funny.

Imagine James Bond. Is he always cracking jokes? Saying things about how great he is? It is all IMPLIED.

When James Bond gives a half-smile, it is communicating what a thousand words couldn't communicate.

God, trying to help people here makes me want to run around in circles.

If you have a lot of women interested in you (which you will if you do this right), you won't have the time, energy, or patience to put on a "C&F performance" for any of them.

Quite simply, if you:
- believe you are enough
- call her out on any disrespectful behaviours
- express yourself genuinely

...you will get lots of women attracted to you. Getting laid from there is all about the logistics of modern life, but that will take care of the attraction part.