when it comes to that time for exclusivity she poses the question you lay out the ground rules of no meeting guys one on one etc etc.. isnt this doomed to fail?
especially if the woman was attracted to you because you were so relaxed, allowed her to meet her guy friends unlike past bf's etc.. surely this is going to be an issue when you law down the law and the ground rules?
i understand a woman should understand that when she's single and in a exclusive relationship her behavior should be altered (though many dont as they want to retain the attention of orbiters and what not esp if she's attractive)
how do you get her to buy into your philosophy and ground rules just by giving the ultimatum of if she is pushing for exlcusivity and wants it she needs to abide by these new rules and if she doesn't then she is nexted.. surely she's going to push the rules or question why beforehand it was acceptable for her to meet her guy friends and now has to cut them out of their life? women won't buy into this concept unless you sell it right and she is hyper invested.
especially if the woman was attracted to you because you were so relaxed, allowed her to meet her guy friends unlike past bf's etc.. surely this is going to be an issue when you law down the law and the ground rules?
i understand a woman should understand that when she's single and in a exclusive relationship her behavior should be altered (though many dont as they want to retain the attention of orbiters and what not esp if she's attractive)
how do you get her to buy into your philosophy and ground rules just by giving the ultimatum of if she is pushing for exlcusivity and wants it she needs to abide by these new rules and if she doesn't then she is nexted.. surely she's going to push the rules or question why beforehand it was acceptable for her to meet her guy friends and now has to cut them out of their life? women won't buy into this concept unless you sell it right and she is hyper invested.
