"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MMA Juan

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I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks. To give you a bit of background, both of us have just come out of LTRs, so we're both obviously not looking for a relationship right now.
The way I've been gaming is excellent- perfect kino, good conversation, HIL's (from what it seemed), slept with her numerous times and she's loved it.

Although... Last night was weird.

Last night me and my mate met up with her and her friends at a club for her mates Bday. I had her on the dance floor, we were hookin up, and she whispered in my ear she wanted me to take her home and fvck her.

So when we left, it was me, my boy and her. Dropped my mate off, and went back to hers. When at hers, all was good, havin fun, i was teason her givin her a massage which eventually led to me pickin her up and takin her back to her room. :D

After we did our thing, she held me tight and then gave me a massage. After that however, i held her and we were about to go to sleep. Then she started crying... I asked her what was wrong, and she said she had a million things on her mind. I didn't probe to much after that because i felt she obviously needed her thinking space.

I comforted her and she came alright, and we then fell asleep. I got up about an hour later, and told her i was heading home (I had work in the morning, and her mates were coming back to the place from the club)

Today i messaged her saying is she was all good considerin she was upset the night before, and the texts i've got back seem distant, and along the lines that she needs to be alone right now.

My question is, if i did something wrong and WTF could it have been (All opinions welcome), and what is your advise on how i should take it from here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tenzen

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Avoid her, don't talk/text/call her. When shes ready she'll contact u. Don't try anything at this point. Shes obviously in a very emotional state. Talking to her in anyway will make it alot worse. Its not ur fault. Trust me on this one i bombed it when i kept trying to get closer to her or figuring out what was the problem happening with the girl.
 

MMA Juan

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Cheers bro, lol i jus fvcked up then cause i messaged her about 10 minutes ago, but i'm sure it won't be enough to put a dent or cause damage, however i like your advise and it will be followed.
 

Tenzen

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hehe glad i could help. Keep us updated as to what happens!
 

MMA Juan

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Hey Tenzen, jus givin ya some feedback bro. Didn't message or contact her again, but she contacted me that night and wanted to catch up. said i was busy with the boys, but told her i would catch up the next night.

went over her place the next night, and damn she was a roudy f**k.
cheers for the advise again, was all good
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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