"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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coronaflash

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Hey guys, Update

I just contacted this girl to confirm the date and she has been flooded. I know that this is the truth as i read in a national paper that her town has been seriously affected in recent days and we had been talking earlier in the week about how bad it was near her. I realise that this is a natural disaster and out of her control. I cancelled the date and she didn't seem too bothered and didn't suggest an alternative date.

Low Level of interest and was Probably going to flake on me anyway??

Your thoughts?

Thanks for all the input and advise, this has been my first thread but i have been a long time lurker!
 
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Reading this stuff makes me think of all the mistakes I used to make (and still do, so this post is practically reminding myself not to pull this crap).

I have a fortune from a fortune cookie pasted in that little window in my wallet - "Wise man seldom talks." I see it every time I open my wallet to remind myself.

The less you talk the better.

Andy's rule of thumb - if they've already seen your picture (Match, Facebook) or met you live in person, they have ALREADY MADE UP THEIR MIND romantically.

So....... NUMBER CLOSE ASAP. Max 15 minutes on the phone for that first call.

Time it. Seriously.

then DATE CLOSE by SAYING AS LITTLE AS POSSIBLE.

Then kiss close AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

DO NOT IM

DO NOT TEXT

Until you are past that first date/meeting and you've established a beach head.

IM/Facebook are puZZy moves. Women simply aren't attracted to chatty guys or wafflers.
 
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