"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your smile

BongDuy

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I read in an article from sosuave that there are exercises to improve your smile. like 30 of them lol, does anyone know what they are? I have this awkward smile because my cheeks are pretty fat and i'm asian, so my eyes squint up really bad making me look pretty weird lol. any tips?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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londonzen

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lol i think i have a weird smile too but as i have dimples i cant smile without squeels from girls and do it again comments
 

daygameguy

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londonzen said:
do it again
What? Push them off. Don't do it again! Make them work for your smile.

Your weakness can be your biggest advantage.
 

londonzen

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na i known for not smiling alot anyway
they come even when i frown so sometimes im pissed at a girl and shes like i love your dimples.
but hey i always use the "youre so sexy when your angry" line

oh day game guy they aint a weakness they have always worked for me
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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daygameguy

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A true non needy genuinely enlightened happy smile looks like a comet that is seen once a million yrs.

You have to feel it.

Think of being this guy that is just happy. A guy who may be poor but has more love to share with people than a guy driving a lamborghini.

Trust me man. That smile is tough to bring out. But when it comes out, it is like a magnet.. girls just smile back.. guys get disarmed.. people open up.. your plans flow like water.
 

daygameguy

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I have a vampire tooth, and a bit bugs bunny type front tooth. I don't get surgery cuz it is likely to make the teeth weak. They don't look that bad at all, just not very perfect.

Imo a true smile can never be ugly.

Don't bother about your teeth. Smile with your eyes. Let the jaw take whatever shape it has to take naturally.
 

Kevin Feng

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Practice in a mirror,

I can't say I had the exact same problem but I do suffer from "Asian Poker Face".

Since you're Asian, definitely check out some of Asian Playboy's material at www.abcsofattraction.com as he does focus specifically with asian men. Shoot me a PM if you have any questions. I'd say he's been the biggest influencer in my game. I worked a lot with Mystery and Matador, both who are great PUAs but they just couldn't relate to me as well as APB did.

Work on being more expressive too, I find that a lot of asians including myself struggle with that.

-Kevin
 
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