"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your philosophy on calling/texting

bprin92

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Something that has been on my mind lately is the relation between girls calling/texting the guy in relation to the interest level. Do you think that the amount that a girl will go out of her way to call or text you is relevant to interest level? Another question is do you think that she has low interest if she isn't going out of her way to do so? Tell me what you think.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Starkwell

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If a chick is into you, she will call or text you often probably more times than you have time to respond to. If you are doing all the texting/calling then then the IL isnt as high. Some women dont take the first step but if you get nothing from her throughout the day she has none.
 
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