"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Your opinion please! This girl likes me

sbgm

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Hi Guys! You see, I work as a DJ - that is Disc-Jockey. And last night one girl that I've talked much to before came up and hit on me. So I know she's interested.

How do I proceed? I've got her # from Facebook and I'm thinking of asking her out to take a walk with me tomorrow night. What do you think about that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You got her number on facebook? Or you asked her on facebook? If you stalked her profile and got it, I suggest you DO NOT text or call or anything cuz its gonna come off very creepy when she asks how you got her number. You should always ask in person for a girls number.

And yea dude its not hard just spend time with her and work your game lol.
 

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I texted her and said I was gonna call her tommorow. So I'm gonna call her tomorrow and then take her for a walk. I'll get back to you tomorrow or on sunday how it went out :D
 

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So! Here's how it went...

I called her at 2 today. No answer. Called her again couple of hours later. No answer. Texted her, answer after about an hour. She said she had other plans.

I might come of as a little desperate calling her twice. NEXT!?

Good learnin' though, since I haven't really asked a girl out many times...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In my best David Deangelo impression, this is what he would tell you.

1. Don't text a girl saying that you will call her, because this takes away your unpredictability.
2. Don't call a girl twice without her response, ESPECIALLY in the same day. You only made it worse by also texting her later in the day. You should be a busy guy who barely has time to spend with her, and if you aren't pretend like you are or make it so that you are.
 

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Thanx man!

My thoughts was:
Hey I'm gonna text her that I'll call her tomorrow so she can free up her schedule for me... Then the first call - oh, maybe she hadn't her phone near...

Sounds ridiculuos now, gahahaha. I screwed it so, NEXT!
 
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