"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your most confusing examples of mixed signals from women?

dave8338

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I had this female coworker who flirted with me seriously. When I pursued her, she was hot one day and cold the next repeatedly. We had great chemistry. One time, when I was cracking jokes, she had sparkle in her eyes looking at me.

We went to have coffee one time and she was laughing and giggling and looking at me in the eyes. When we parted, she said that I really cracked her up. She said that we should do it (coffee) again. When I sent an email the next day asking for coffee with her again, she gave me some excuses not to be able to go. What the **** was that?

How would you deal with this? Anyone has a success story dealing with mixed signals? That is, you eventually get to **** her? If so, what did you do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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d9930380

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Maybe the excuse was genuine! - Sit back and let her ask you out.
 
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