"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your MANLY hobbies

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Baseball, not just watching but I still play in a recreational fast pitch league.
Classic cars...currently helping a family friend do a resto-mod of a 1957 Corvette.
Brewpubs/microbreweries and vintage scotch
Mountain biking
Sometimes I'll go to a pistol/rifle range
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Martial arts (currently taking boxing)
Improv Comedy
Salsa
Gym
public speaking and communications

Hobbies I intend to partaking in the near future:
learning spanish, italian, and french
muay thai (studied for abit last year but had to stop due to financial reasons and other commitments)
photography
tennis
 

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Women have always loved my motorcycle. Everyone wants to be friends with "motorcycle guy." The fact that I can get pvssy with a $600 motorcycle is a bit of an insight into the rationale women employ in making such decisions.
 

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true, i had some social advantage when I rode motorcycle. there's something that women LOVE about bikers... maybe the danger, risky, speed of it..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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moneyisking said:
Thanks for many kind advices. I swear to God almighty I live in apartment right now but when I get me a house with garage, I will start me some manly habits of wood working. I love wood work but not really much space to work on in a crammy apartment. Also will get me a dog; best furry companion for men.
You'd be surprised what you can fit into a small apartment.
They make compact versions of most tools these days. In my 1 bedroom apartment years ago I had a compact table saw, drill press, workbench, oscillating sander, and a full compliment of hand tools.
 

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I've been watching a Siberian Huskie for a friend. This dog is a chick magnet. I don't even have to try when I have that dog with me; every woman I see wants to talk to me. I get ambushed from all directions. This must be what it's like to be an attractive woman.
 

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I've often wondered about the dog thing. Do guys actually seal the deal with these women, or are they only interested in the dog?

LOL, I originally misspelled "dog" and had "dong" in there.
 

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I draw. But I guess that isn't very MANLY now is it?

/Sarcasm

No such thing as a manly hobby, do what you're interested in & love.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Atom Smasher said:
I've often wondered about the dog thing. Do guys actually seal the deal with these women, or are they only interested in the dog?

LOL, I originally misspelled "dog" and had "dong" in there.
Dogs will attract serious attention to you, but ultimately it's up to YOU to seal the deal.

Most women are irresistibly drawn to dogs/puppies, I really don't think any article of clothing you can wear, vehicle you drive, or huge pecs can attract more attention than most dogs can.
 

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Yeah, the bike and the dog attract the same thing - initial interest. You can destroy it as soon as you open your mouth.

To use a baseball analogy, a woman who approaches you first or at least is the first to communicate interest is like a fat pitch - a hanging curve ball floating over the middle of the plate. If you can hit, that's the one you knock out of the park. But if you can't hit, it's not going to matter.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
I've often wondered about the dog thing. Do guys actually seal the deal with these women, or are they only interested in the dog?

LOL, I originally misspelled "dog" and had "dong" in there.
https://youtu.be/qozS31CoDQU

BigDawsTV is one of my favorite pranksters on YouTube and he's gotten some numbers with just a puppy!

Oh and the manly things I do besides taking care of my self, would have to be cars. The science and everything behind them just fascinates me. I research and learn about them for fun. Also putting stuff together would be another. That's all I have so far that's "manly" at the moment.
 
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