SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
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One thing I'm big on preaching is Charm & Charisma. Alot of advice is given that simply says to be charming or be charismatic but not much more elaboration on how to do these things. Here's some things I bet that if you give attention to, your interactions will become a whole lot smoother.
1.) Relax: Breathe easy. Your talking to a woman, not someone who controls the fate of the galaxy. Try your best to calm your mind and to not think to much, approach conversation naturally rather then strategically. Talking isn't a game of chess, no need to plan it out. Thats why the most successful interactions are usually the spontaneous ones
2.) Slow Down: This is really tied for number 1 I can't stress this enough. I already made post on this but again slow it down. Chillax. Stop cutting her off, let her finish. Stop rushing to get your idea across, she's not going to run away. Slower body movements, slower speaking, long pauses, take as much time as you need. The world is your Oyster, therefore you no need rush.
3.) Body Language: I know a Guy that talks to all females with his arms crossed. I tell him all the time, "Yo, if you uncross your arms and unslouch your shoulders those harlots will be swarming" Its true, 90% of communication is something other than words. That means don't communicate with your body the wrong way. You can say the suavest line ever uttered by donavus suavius himself but if your arms are crossed, your heads down, legs close together, and shoulders slouched It ain't gonna work. Shoulders back but relaxed, chest out, head up, arms relaxed. Keep a confident posture.
4.) Eye Contact: No, dont do the creepy eye contact where you stare in her eyes silently for 15 secs and say "I'm looking into the windows of your soul" But dolook in her eyes when she is speaking and when you are speaking to her, occasionally break eye contact to look at her lips and rinse wash and repeat. In my experience, when I make eye contact while speaking to a woman she looks away, not only cause she wants to savor my beauty, but also because it is a natural submission reaction. In other words masculine, dominant men hold and maintain eye contact, passive and submissive anything else usually look away
5.) Amused Mastery: The double S preaches the prize mentality and I completely approve that message because that's the way it supposed to be. That same mentality should applied to conversations as well. Many men think "Am I boring her?" " I must make her laugh." when they should be thinking "is she boring" "do I find her entertaining". Have fun, say some sh1t that will make YOU laugh and if she doesn't find it funny whoopty fvcking do, she'll still feed off the positive energy your resonating if you are truly enjoying Yourself.
There you have it, five tips that will improve how you talk with women and none of them involved what to say. This is because once you develop a certain mindset, a confident mindset, what you say will come naturally. Sure you can memorize lines that you can use in a specific situation, or you can acquire a mindset that can be used in all situations.
Feel free to add to the list fellow Djs
-Smoove
One thing I'm big on preaching is Charm & Charisma. Alot of advice is given that simply says to be charming or be charismatic but not much more elaboration on how to do these things. Here's some things I bet that if you give attention to, your interactions will become a whole lot smoother.
1.) Relax: Breathe easy. Your talking to a woman, not someone who controls the fate of the galaxy. Try your best to calm your mind and to not think to much, approach conversation naturally rather then strategically. Talking isn't a game of chess, no need to plan it out. Thats why the most successful interactions are usually the spontaneous ones
2.) Slow Down: This is really tied for number 1 I can't stress this enough. I already made post on this but again slow it down. Chillax. Stop cutting her off, let her finish. Stop rushing to get your idea across, she's not going to run away. Slower body movements, slower speaking, long pauses, take as much time as you need. The world is your Oyster, therefore you no need rush.
3.) Body Language: I know a Guy that talks to all females with his arms crossed. I tell him all the time, "Yo, if you uncross your arms and unslouch your shoulders those harlots will be swarming" Its true, 90% of communication is something other than words. That means don't communicate with your body the wrong way. You can say the suavest line ever uttered by donavus suavius himself but if your arms are crossed, your heads down, legs close together, and shoulders slouched It ain't gonna work. Shoulders back but relaxed, chest out, head up, arms relaxed. Keep a confident posture.
4.) Eye Contact: No, dont do the creepy eye contact where you stare in her eyes silently for 15 secs and say "I'm looking into the windows of your soul" But dolook in her eyes when she is speaking and when you are speaking to her, occasionally break eye contact to look at her lips and rinse wash and repeat. In my experience, when I make eye contact while speaking to a woman she looks away, not only cause she wants to savor my beauty, but also because it is a natural submission reaction. In other words masculine, dominant men hold and maintain eye contact, passive and submissive anything else usually look away
5.) Amused Mastery: The double S preaches the prize mentality and I completely approve that message because that's the way it supposed to be. That same mentality should applied to conversations as well. Many men think "Am I boring her?" " I must make her laugh." when they should be thinking "is she boring" "do I find her entertaining". Have fun, say some sh1t that will make YOU laugh and if she doesn't find it funny whoopty fvcking do, she'll still feed off the positive energy your resonating if you are truly enjoying Yourself.
There you have it, five tips that will improve how you talk with women and none of them involved what to say. This is because once you develop a certain mindset, a confident mindset, what you say will come naturally. Sure you can memorize lines that you can use in a specific situation, or you can acquire a mindset that can be used in all situations.
Feel free to add to the list fellow Djs
-Smoove
