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Your hairstyle is MUCH more important than you think

MetalFortress

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Your ideal hairstyle will improve your success TENfold. What fits your face? What looks good on you? Find out and take it to the shop...

My cut BEFORE:

http://myspace-166.vo.llnwd.net/00156/66/16/156296166_l.jpg
http://myspace-334.vo.llnwd.net/00166/43/31/166441334_l.jpg

My cut AFTER:

http://myspace-155.vo.llnwd.net/00198/55/16/198846155_l.jpg
http://myspace-807.vo.llnwd.net/00198/70/88/198828807_l.jpg

The old style was me being lazy. The new style is me being me and actually thinking about what looks good on me and fits who I am. I paid no more than I did for my old cut, either; this one was done by the same barbershop as my old cut. Yet not only do I feel more confident, but I look twice as good as before, and am getting at least three times more attention and flirtiness from the chicks, and surprisingly, more respect from guys too.

Think about your haircut, if you usually do not. It's more important than you think.
 

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man u should put abit of blue at the top of ur hair and back alittle.. i think alittle bit of blue would do wonder for ya, good mix with dark hair.(u can always dye it back to its oringinal color if u dont like it.) Also your hair just look cleaner than it use to becuase now it got all the jel in it showin that u take care of ur hair and take the time to fix it.
 

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Re: Re: Your hairstyle is MUCH more important than you think

Originally posted by KillaPetehog
10 fold.

nah.

more like 2 fold.
Like I said in my post, I look twice as good. Count 2. I'm getting at least three times more attention from chicks I don't even know and have never met. Count 3. I feel more confident. Count 1. I'm getting more respect from the guys too (not friends already, I mean ones I just met, since I started school today). Count 1. I paid the same for this cut as I did for all my others. Count 1. This cut resulted from me thinking about what looks good on me and fits who I am. Count 2.

2 + 3 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 2 = 10

That's tenfold. (no, shut up, I'm not a pothead)
 

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what he says is 100% true. I speak from experiance. You will look much better.
 

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yeh blue hair wont get u know dam girls.. who would want to be with a smurf i like his hair the way it is. the first hair cut he had.. was very not cool. but the new hair cut is pretty tight
 

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Metalfortress: the new style looks good! Big improvement!

I agree with this advice too! Your hair is a lot like the clothes you wear. Modern styles make you look like someone who is in the game, sexually active and in tune with the times.

Take a look at the hairstyles (and clothing) of nerds/models, gay/butch, young/old, confident/insecure etc and notice the volumes they speak about the person.
 

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Myself, I noticed hairstyle matters mostly for younger girls, below their 20s.
What if you don't have any hair at all? if your head is shaved?

I think it lies more in the pscyhe. Like when you got a better haircut you see yourself as better looking -> you feel better -> you're more attractive/got more charisma
 

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I agree with rapsta.. I've been shaving my hair for 2 years now, since my military service, and my game has improved by LOTS after that.

But, as he said, it can be a combination of alot of stuff, that you just relate with the hairdo... I trained hard during my MS, hence became more fit. I got sobered up, de-toxed (drugs, just the soft stuff, but still) and got turned into a "badass". my psyche was improved. AND the feeling of community helped out alot too.

Seriously though, who cares, even if it just improves your confidence, it's good enugh =)

//Deus
 

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Hair does matter big time. Anyone who says it are either bald or lying.

It's just another form of communication. And it isn't psyche or mentallity or even gets charisma.

If George Bush got a spikey hair cut, no one would take him seriously. If he got a slick back hair - people think he's sneaky. But if he has a conservative businessman haircut, people think he's all business and important.
 

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk

A guy's hair can tell a lot about himself. You see those Filipinos and Mexicans with bald hair or even white people? They're trying to mimic a bad boy lifestyle that Black people have (cause they shave their heads too!)
ehhh.... Right. OR their heads fit with a shaved hairdo.... or, they wanna save cash by shaving it themselves, instead on tossing out $ at a barber, to give 'em a hairdo they don't fit in.

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk

What about that guy with a slick back hair? He's basically communicating that he's a bad ass, doesn't take crap from anyone. What abou that guy who has longer hair on top, shorter hair on sides? He's communicating he's athletic and likes to be in action.
Tried both, my head doesn't match up with the flattop, and my hair gets too wavy with a backslick.....

//Deus
 

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I got rocker hair thefore I'm communicating that I'm living my life to the fullest w00t.
 

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your face looks kind of like lou ferrigno in the first set of pics lol.

but i agree hairstyle does mean alot. i buzzed my head but im growing it back now. I feel more badd ass with no hair but i look better with hair.
 

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I agree that haircuts are important.

For many years I didn't think they were and I never did anything special with my hair, but over the last year I cut my hair in a cool style (still nothing too fancy, but better than nothing) and even girls whom I've used to see who saw me again gave me compliments and seemed to be more attracted to me. I know it sounds corny, but its true.
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
Myself, I noticed hairstyle matters mostly for younger girls, below their 20s.
What if you don't have any hair at all? if your head is shaved?

I think it lies more in the pscyhe. Like when you got a better haircut you see yourself as better looking -> you feel better -> you're more attractive/got more charisma
It's both. When I first experienced the difference, I wasn't thinking about it at all. I was charging in because I was about half an hour late to my destination. I don't doubt that the added boost which came from good results, led to more good results though.

Shaved head is a very badass look if you have the head to pull it off. I look like a nazi when I do it, though, and I don't have male pattern baldness genetics, so I shouldn't be needing to anytime soon.
 

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A good haircut is worth the investment. I recently went from a $20 cut to going to a full out hip "salon" and paying $40. It's more, yeah, but the better cut lasts longer so I don't have to get a new one as quick. There doesn't seem to be an awkward stage, either.
 

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Yeah man, the new do is definitely much better than the old one.

I'm growing mine out long, then going to a good place to get a kick ass style.
 

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Originally posted by nosexbox
A good haircut is worth the investment. I recently went from a $20 cut to going to a full out hip "salon" and paying $40. It's more, yeah, but the better cut lasts longer so I don't have to get a new one as quick. There doesn't seem to be an awkward stage, either.
I actually only spent 9 dollars on this one. Barber shops own.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
I actually only spent 9 dollars on this one. Barber shops own.
you get what you pay for.

girls notice me more when i clean myself up and splurge for the 30 dollar haircut. Guys might not notice or care when a girl spends more money to do up their hair, but THEY SURE notice me when I do it.
 

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