"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mission

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I have been on sosuave.com for about a month now, and honestly it is a great site, and there is alot of great advice on here.

On a few recent posts however I have found that the advice given has not been the best advice, and the other thing I have found is that more and more, this advice just comes down to common sense.

Sosuave.com and other similar sites have shown me how to be alot more confident, and I have been having alot more random conversations with people lately, and getting los of girls, it has been great.

What I want you all to do is view the world around you objectively, and try to learn from all your situations, I remember once on a Double Your Dating tip, deAngelo says that when you get a girls number, call it right away to make sure its not a fake. Well at work last night one of our bartenders gave her number to a guy at the bar, well guess what the guy calls her 10 mins after she leaves. So she comes back to me and says, "haha he called already" so I said, "wow, what an eager guy, sure you want to hang out with such a premature petey?" purely joking with her, and she says, "no he called me to make sure the number wasn't fake".

So you guys can go along all you want thinking that this advice is so brilliant, but I have a piece of paper in my desk that a buddy gave to me 6 months ago before we went to go pick up girls, on this sheet he had outlined all the best advice he had ever gotten. Let me tell you something about this sheet, it was basically fastseduction.com in a nutshell, even the magical 3 second rule was on it.

What I am trying to tell you guys, is get out there and talk about dating and girls with other people, because even though this site is great for putting all this info in a concise place, and it works very well for those of us who think more logically. The site is great don't get me wrong, but just be wary that anything you learn on this site, you can learn from a combination of all the people that you know.

--Mission
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree with you both but the thing is that when I was a big AFC or when anyone else, the problem wasnt how complicated chicks are its usually a problem with ourselves. Like our self esteem and confidence and stuff and thats why alot of the philoosophy in the dj bible and stuff is what matters. AFCs ask for help with girls which isnt their main problem, the real focus should be self improvement.
 

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PumpingIron13 said:
I agree with you both but the thing is that when I was a big AFC or when anyone else, the problem wasnt how complicated chicks are its usually a problem with ourselves. Like our self esteem and confidence and stuff and thats why alot of the philoosophy in the dj bible and stuff is what matters. AFCs ask for help with girls which isnt their main problem, the real focus should be self improvement.
You just summed up exactly what I am trying to say.
The truth is, outer game comes naturally once you get the inner game down. I really think that alot of the information on this site is great motivational stuff, and great for showing guys how to improve themselves.

--Mission
 
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