"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Enryu

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Do you Always ask yourself :"where should I invite this girl to?"

The new club? Naah too noisy, too many ppl i dont like blabla music sucks I hate to dance

My home? Naah to boring and i cant do some DJ tricks like walking off to talk with friends etc.

The streets? Naah sometimes its too cold, You cant do anything at night, I dont want to take her to an action date, noo the sunrays could kill me

But where should i go with her?
Don't know?Well heres my advice:

Find a nice and cool place where you can get alcohol ( not necessary) for example Bar,Pub,Coffee shop,Club (if you are TEH clubber) etc.

Invite some friends, have fun,enjoy yourself, talk to many ppl men and women, get friends with the barkeeper/barista, and always give a tip like 5€

after a few weeks everyone there will know you even the Barista/Barkeeper which is a great +

Now when you finally invite your desired you can always talk with others, enjoy your self if shes a total b!tch, and she can see how social you are with others... that you have a nice bunch of friends
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dave and Buster's has always worked well for me. Arcade games, restaurant, pool, bowling, and drinks. Casual atmosphere, and keeps you both moving.

You can learn a lot about a girl by the way she plays air hockey. :p
 

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aww would have been nice to know that when the airhockey wouldnt be destroyed at my usual place but nice to know thanks ;)

But i dont know how its with you guys over there in the usa here in germany bowling isnt that big o deal we rarely play that (damn :D) and arcade games are also nowhere to be found
 
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