"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your First Kiss!
- Thread starter spax
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I was (almost) 20. I was so nervous, I accidently kissed her on the eyelid.spax said:
First make out was weird, and a little gross, cause I went for a sweet little kiss, and ended up having a tonsillectomy. It was, I'd imagine, almost like kissing an octopus.
Later on, the kissing got better on occasion. One girl I dated had horrible breath, and was always eating stuff that made me allergic, so it wasn't always entirely pleasant, but once she got rid of those issues, it was great.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Not suprisingly, I completely blew it after that but that was my first real taste of a girl and it totally blew my mind
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Master Bates
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Don't worry, my story is definitely not indicative of my success with women after.SinJester said:Man I'm slow. Most of these guys have been pimping since first grade