your aim in a conversation!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Master Don Juan

Jul 30, 2005

When mr x is aobut to meet someone, he is thinking about all the cool things he has to tell the person he is meeting, he did this and that then this happened now he wants to do such and such etc..

Does mr x sound like you?

If you want people to like tlaking with you, dont let your aim be to tell the person aobut whats happening in your life, i mena after all what diffrence does it make to your life weather that person knows what happened or not.

Your aim should be to find out what the other person has been doing, so on your way dont start thinking about all the cool things you can say about yourself, think about the fact that you want to find out what the person has been up to!

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.