"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You most efficient pickup?

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I recently got a phone number with very few words exchanged. I was wondering what the most efficient pickup possible would be - and I realized that the fewer words, the better. Therefore the most efficient pickup possible would feature 0 words exchanged. You would just make eye contact, she would smile, and you would hand her your cell phone and she'd enter her info (seems to be the new thing). Or, ideally, you'd kiss them on the spot without any phone involved.

What is your most efficient pickup?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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