"You love me too much"

[LittleBigOne]

Met this cute french girl last summer. We exchanged addresses and kept contact. She lives in Paris, me in the Netherlands. She invited me to come over several times and two weeks ago i did for a long weekend.
Contact was really great. I made fun of her, teased her and we did active things in the city. On the final evening i took her hand, said i liked her, and started making out with her. Really great. I got pretty passionated and she said in teasing way 'you love me too much'. So i replied with: 'you have never ever met a passionate man before i see'. Since she lives in a small appartment with her grandmother (who was sleeping in the next room) we did not escalate.
Next (final) day was cool too. But when we were sitting on her bed the final moments and we talked i made an effort to kiss her once more and she said 'this is not a good idea'. However it was clear she liked my kino. So i backed off a bit and a bit later we kissed goodbye and i drove further south to continue my time in France (she had to work again). During my time in France we txtmessaged every one or two days.
Now i am back and the messages stop. Last one was last sunday, she telling me she wants to come over to my place soon.
My general problem is that i overanalyze. I don't want to push her too much by messaging all the time and act needy. But on the other side i want to keep that close contact and don't lose her interest. Probably i need to have patience and do the things i have to do here at home (which is much) and continue having fun with my local friends.
How to stop overanalyzing and how to keep her interested (or did she lost interest by comming on to strong). Should i keep up the messaging or is that too needy? As you see, my problem is overanalyzing....damn

 

[Guybrush]

Typical LDR case. You had good time, you have good memories to keep, you liked her for a while and now it's over.

LDR - is NOT a viable option when there are LOTS of girls near you. Read Rollo Tomassi's post on LDRs and think about it.

Brother, I have been there years ago, when I fell in love with beautiful chrisitina (bulgarian), cute ophelia (french) , lovely hye-sung (korean) ...

Each time I tried to keep it, I ended up in a worse situation.

Put your time AND energy INTO girls that are CLOSE to you.

 

[n00bPimp]

I think 90% of the people in this forum overanalize, why else do you think we're AFCs? LOL

Have some patience. If I were you I'd give it a week without contacting her. If she initiates contact then thats cool and it means she misses you and has a high interest level. If not then that should clear things up as to whether she likes you.
Remember that talking to her everyday will not create or diminish her interest. Because if she has any, she will be the one worrying about contacting you. More contact does not equal keeping her interest it just means you're a grerat friend.

And the only friends women have are called girlfriends.