You know what is Sexuality?

[moneyisking]

Hey, I have a difficult question I want to ask you guys, which I have been laying on bed and tried to figure out for quite a while.

I have developed incredibly a lot from total AFC highschooler to a man with great friends and the "light of the party". Of course, I don't get girls much sexually, and although I do talk to a lot of chicks and get around (nonsexually), I still am a virgin. But the important thing is, I am not caught under the stress of virgin and not getting girls no more. I understand that I have the desire to fvck a girl, but I live w/ the desire and control it, not controlled by it.

I understand women and sex come when I finally realize that man does not need to have women and sex to live. My goal is to be confident, comfortable, natural, and be able to get and attract any girls I choose, and in order to know that, I need seduction knowledge and experience.

Since I quit thinking/analyzing in my head when I am talking to girls completely, this allowed me to converse with few girls and get their numbers in past 2 weeks (and really hot ones). But I am now stuck w/ this question.

"Ok, I know that not thinking in my head keeps me relatively comfortable and brings techniques naturally. I have sexual desires, but I control them and don't allow it to control me. I understand I use CF, Kino, dis-connector, give attention if she earns it, confront her head on and not avoid, give her emotions, let her win me, etc and BE SEXUAL.

Now what the hell does it mean to be sexual?

Is it simply asking her to come in to my room? I don't think so.
Is it sweet talking and saying sexual and dirty things?
Imagine those guys who get girls right and left.
What do they do on terms of being sexual and sexuality that allow them to get any girls they want?

It seems like easy question to answer, but surprisingly it's not.
What does it mean to be sexual and sexuality that gets girls?
This is my final (for now) question.

 

[grayclif]

Money you are king. I am no PUA but what I am noticing is that you have a step by step by step by step approach when dealing with women. But you say its working for you. From how you write you seem smart so think up a few things and see what works and develop your own style in this regard.

I thought this post was remarkably insightful -
http://man*****.org/reading-a-girls-emotions/

 

[WC2]

It's refreshing to see guys on here who aren't obsessed with the 'easy way out' and know that women aren't everything.

However, I don't know if you REALLY know. Maybe you do. In my experience you can say that women aren't everything to you, but once you start having sex with women, the tables turn.

As men we naturally want sex and if we let women control our sexual appetites, the tables can turn REAL quick even if our mind tells us the opposite.

The 1 thing you didn't mention with being sexual is the mutual understanding of sexuality.

Want to know what all these guys know (or maybe you know.. you just don't use it) that you don't?

Women, just like us, want sex all the time. And most of the time, women want it more.

This is why you see the same men leaving the bars/parties with women all the time. The women understand that he sees NOTHING wrong with her having sex, so they TRUST him not to judge her.

Women naturally distrust men (little boys really) who don't have a lot of sex, and therefore see sex as 'wrong'. Being sexual with a woman means letting her know that it's OK to display sexual advances without passing judgment.

Sure, you can talk naughty to a woman, but do you really want to be sexual with her? Believe it or not, women analyze men very fast when they first meet them. They determine whether he's a guy she can go back with and have her brains f*cked out with, or if he's a nice guy that she can start trying to form (manipulate) a relationship around.

I don't think the latter is necessarily all that bad. Some of my ex-GFs I didn't really become sexual with until a time in. But when we did become sexual, we REALLY became sexual. And that was good.

It's really your preference. Do you want to take home women every night and have plentiful sex or would you rather try to shape a relationship with a woman who is not so forthcoming? Remember, this day in age being so forthcoming is considered the 'norm'.

And then there are some men who have both sides covered.. they f*ck plenty of women, but they also can handle taking it slow with a chick who might not be as promiscuous.

Like I said, it's all preference. Just know the 'norms' in today's society.