"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You know what I have realized?

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The people who don't have women or men, are the ones that won't shut the F up about women and men. It's all they want to talk about.

my wife has these two friends, bothh qare somewhat overweight, one way moreso than the ther. but neither are catches. why she's friends with them i have no idea but that's another post. they just come over and it's like their entire lifes just blabbing about this guy on facebook or talking about the guy she saw at the club or whatever the fvck SHUT THE F UP. good god get a fvcking life. something. watch a documentary on some ****. pick up a new hobby or something. the **** is mind numming. my wife is getting to the point where she doesn't answer the phone when they call and they just pop up now lol. and we are having a super bowl party tomorrow and i know they are coming, i'm telling them right now that **** is coming to a halt. i'm watching football.


no one wants to hear your freaking love story problelms all day everyday. like our other friends, they come over, most have at least reasonalbe success with the opposite sex, maybe not DJs but, they aren'jt stroking it 10 times a day with rosie palm either. I mean we talk about normal ****. did you see the college football game? what about that good 3YO at santa anita what do you think about him? hey waht do you think about the new facebook IPO? have you tried out google plus? hey man i got this new microbrew come down it with me. even my wife and her friends, they talk about normal women ****. hey look at my new dress. hey, let me tell you what joe (our son) did the other day it was so cute. hey give me a good recipe to make X. have you seen that new reality TV show, girl you need to watch it? I mean, i'm not saying the topic of men, and women never come up, but it's not the overbearing topic of all conversations

that's' all these two fat broads want to talk about. one of them came over my house last week, and mind you, in front of my 2 and a half year old son, called her baby daddy and cursed hhim out becuase he was stalking her.. she about got slapped, seriously. I don't even curse around my son. my wife tried to, nicely suggest that she wait home to call her but th woman was so over the top with emotion she had to do it right then right now in front of like 6 people. I told my wife that if she ever pulls any **** like that again she won't be coming back in this house. don't care whose friend she is or how close you are.


just pisses me off. no one wants to hear your god damn sob story EVERY FVCKING DAY OF THE WEEK.

that goes to men too. if you have girl problems, tough ****. deal with it. come here. but in real life, don't be "that guy".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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