"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you know what i find repuslive?

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so we are sitting here, no one actually felt like going to hollywood park tonight, so we are just stting here watching it at home via TVG, some friends, about 6 of us, eating and watching horse racing, shooting the s hit. actually pretty fun. 3 girls, 3 guys.
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one of the girls there, you know the girl int he club who isn't like, repulsive, but you would not go out of your way to talk to her in a normal setting? maybe a few extra pounds, but not really ugly? well we had one of those. maybe a hb5 over our house. she's a friend of ours. she has always rubbed me hte wrong way. actually just about all my wife's friends rub me the wrong way, but i put up with them that's a different post.

anyway, we are sitting there, she's talking about how "naughty" she feels like being tonight. like she is just sitting there being a walking advertisement for someone to **** her because she's easy. she can't wait to go out and "see what happens".

i was thinking to myself.. ***** you are disgusting. not so much becuase you are a *****, i have no problem with people who like sex. But, when a woman has to advertise the fact that she wants a man to hit on her, that's never a good sign lol. yourdoingitwrong

it's like, how can i explain this, lord knows i'm not the best with words.... she's trying to make you think of her in a sexual state, when with a normal hot woman, for instance, her femininess does the marketing for her. my baby doesn't have to adverse to that she wants to be ****ed i assure you, she's sexy.

it's kinda like a guy who
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holy ****. i just blew my own mind


it's kinda like an AFC trying to project sex on a woman.


a man should not have to overly convey his sexual nature to a woman, nor should a woman have to overly convey her sexual nature to a man. I attract women just by b eing backbreaker. Not saying a "man" should be climbing mountains and ****, but a man being a man, naturally attracts women. doesn't matter if you are a plummer or working in the IT field, a man is a man. And a woman is a woman.

the fact that this woman was sitting here, like basically begging one of the two guys to take her out, i just found repulsive.

projecting sex or the fact that you want to have sex is kinda like getting the ball first in overtime in a college football game lol. You are at a huge disadvantage. i should not have to ask a woman to fvck me or if she is interested in fvckng me, it should be the natural thing that two people lead to, when a man and a woman spend time together and are attracted to each other. at least that's how i see it.

i remember when i was 21 years old and i put on a **** lod of weight, got up to 240 almost. when i first started dating my then GF we would fvck like rabbits, any and everywhere. kitchen, car, bed, bathroom, shower, mom's house, her house, didn't matter. i'd get at least a blow job every day. by the end of the relationship s ex was like freaking ice cream for a kid that ate all his veggies. like she was doing me a favor by having sex with me. bear with me i'm sorta just thinking out loud, lol.

i could easily say "well sex always goes like that in a LTR" but the truth of the matter is she just wasn't attracted to me. when she was attracted to me, no matter how mad i made her, we still fvckedd. she wanted to have sex.

women want to have sex. men want to have sex. lol you aren't selling vacuums to people with hardwood floors here buddy.

walk in a room, go to the supermarket, look at every woman there, and say'that woman has probably had sex 10-15 times this year at least". women are fvcking. there is alot of fv cking going on out there buddy, and if you aren't getting fvcked, or women aren't making it known to you that they wan to fvck y ou in one of many ways, than you aren't fvckable. that goes for men and women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Backbreaker,


DESPERATE times for DESPERATE women causes them to take DESPERATE measures to communicate their DESPERATION in hopes that they'll find guys DESPERATE "enough" to get with them.
 

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Every time a guy hits on a girl, isn't that conveying you want to bang her? I don't think you're going to make it to the
bedroom by swinging a hammer or showing a girl your programing skills. At some point, you're going to have to 'get sexual', you just need to be a little graceful about it, it seems this girl was sort of barbaric about it.
 

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fat girls have no shame.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJDamage

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There was this hb5 in a party I attended once that got so drunk she blurted out during a convo : "I like anal sex!"

It was a major turnoff but I understand that an hb5 needs to advertise her sexuality in order to tell men : "hey look I may not be as a attractive as the other ladies in here but I can make it up by being as nasty in bed as you want me to be". You can say its almost like the equivelent of a guy with no game but is rich and will spend alot of money on a woman willing to sleep with him.

Needless to say she left the party alone and her manish loud burps with the smell of hotdog breath didn't help her either.
 

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You don't find that hugely erotic?

All kidding aside, I have always found a girl kind of sexy when she burps, if and ONLY if she is feminine in all other respects. Naturally, I understand your circumstance was quite different. I hate loud, aggressive girls who state sexuality rather than convey or project it.
 

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Sounds like this chick was just horny as fvck, and yes desperate.

Man this thread makes me feel like shi.t for having not gotten laid at all recently. I've been in a drought, mostly because of where my mind has been. It'll come -- but as I denoted in another thread, I gotta get my ass out there and bridge some connections.

So much yet to learn. So much yet to learn.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yeah, eventually you learn to either get it YOUR way, all the time, or forget about and go have fun some other way.
 
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