"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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PVSSY-EATER

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Hey guys, I just thought that I would share to some of you, some of my thoughts on life and some current happenings. Some of you may disagree with what I am about to say, but hey, lets discuss!

Does anybody know what it really means to be a don juan? A lot of people, well should I say, EVERYBODY that came to this website was hell bent on knowing the secret of getting more ***** and having all the women like you. Well have you ever thought for a minute, What was your motive behind that?

I mean, when you first came here, you probably were dumped, in a bad relationship, needed some understanding, shy, or probably couldnt get a woman to notice you if you were the winner of American Idol. But....what were your motives?

I believe most peoples motives were to become like somebody else they had seen getting a lot of *****. Like,
If you are black, being a thug is popular with the black girls.
If you are white, being a jock if popular with the white girls.

But the key word is popular. Everybody wants to be liked, everybody wants to be popular. Which is fine. But...the question still remains......

Are you popular, WITH YOURSELF?

When we first came here, our motives were HOW TO BE, liked by women. But....I must ask again....do you really know what a don juan is?

A don juan, is like a little god. Like, when God first made the earth, it was void and dark. So God spoke let there be light, and he CREATED his own world. That is what a don juan is.

A don juan is a creater of his world. NOT SOMEONE ELSES. A don juan creates his world, then he goes out and adds his frosting to his already baked cake. But.....when we first came here, and even some still do this, and that is, we go out and eat all this frosting, but haved baked no cake.

What I m saying is that, we put to must emphaize on not being an AFC, that we remain one and dont even know it. Let me be real.........

Because you are getting ***** does not mean you are a don juan.
Because everybody likes you does not mean you are a don juan.
Because you have confidence, does not mean you are a don juan.

A don juan answers his calling in life, if he does not know it, he discovers it. Then he chases it, and begins to build upon it. (That is his cake.) Then he goes out and puts on other things (his frosting) like new cars, new clothes, new and better friends, new and hotter women.

But a don juan is a man who answers his call, and then throws in the toppings like women, cars, and clothes. He IS NOT, defined by women, cars, or clothes, or other people, he is DEFINED by his calling.

That is why when a women rejects a TRUE don juan, it does not bother him, because SHE is nothing but an addition to his already build car. SHE is not the car. WHAT SHE, says, really means nothing. You know why, BECAUSE the don juan only gets his direction, guidance, and perception, and belief, and most importantly SELF WORTH, from his calling.

That is why when fake friends turn on a TRUE don juan, it does not bother him, for the same reason as above. A TRUE don juan can lose his job, and it wont bother him, because he can EASILY go get another one BETTER than what he had.

I got to go.....but I just though I would share with you guys a little bit.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jariel

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I agree 100% and everything you have said here is something I'm FINALLY beginning to discover for myself. Popularity, wealth and women mean nothing if you cannot be independently contented with yourself.
 

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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER

That is why when fake friends turn on a TRUE don juan, it does not bother him,
This point speaks waves to my heart. You see people here forget that the whole problem is not just with understanding women, a true dj understands people. You see lately ive realised i have a lot of fake friends. You see not to be conceited i am considered a good looking guy, and latey i have found out that some of my firends have been talking **** behind my back. And well i realised that doesnt faze me, it did at first but now it doesnt. I dont need people who would try to use me for their own personal gains.
SO like you say a true don juan would create his own little world with people he actually care about and would be his own boss not letting people decide his life for eg. in my case friends telling me who to go see.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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