You Don't Want Her, You Want a Companion

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Recently found this excerpt on Twitter (credit to @playboysparadox). Do you relate to this?

"With time you’ll realize that you didn’t want her, you wanted a companion. You tried to force yourself to see her as someone she isn’t because you’re tired of searching for a companion. It’s not that you want a relationship, you just want someone smiling at you. You want the feminine energy, you want the kisses, you want to hear her giggle. You desire femininity but you keep falling for poor quality women because you don’t understand that what you like about her has nothing to do with her and everything to do with your loneliness. Majority of men will fall in love with any pretty face regardless of red flags because they do anything to experience what I said above. I think majority of men are very lonely. They have friends, hobbies, etc but their is no intimacy in their lives. Some men even have a lot of women in their lives but these connections are shallow. Men are facing a depressing time because what motivated men in the past was women but now women literally suck. There’s no other way to put it but modern women inspire nothing but despair and disappointment in men. The sex is good but once it’s over it’s back to feeling empty. I’m pretty sure this is the case because modern women are empty inside. They have all lost their femininity due to the culture and feminism. Men know this deep down when they’re with a woman. They see some light in her eyes but they still know she’s lost. This is why we men fall in love with girls we don’t actually love. We are in love with the idea of love, not the actual girl. We also fall in love with the idea of saving her because this strokes our egos. Men will meet a girl, lie to himself that he loves her just so he can no longer feel numb but eventually it wears off. If your mind is stuck on a girl that you know isn’t the one deep down it’s because you’re disappointed, not sad. You’re disappointed that what you seek the most from women they can’t give you."
 
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Recently found this excerpt on Twitter (credit to @playboysparadox). Do you relate to this?

"With time you’ll realize that you didn’t want her, you wanted a companion. You tried to force yourself to see her as someone she isn’t because you’re tired of searching for a companion. It’s not that you want a relationship, you just want someone smiling at you. You want the feminine energy, you want the kisses, you want to hear her giggle. You desire femininity but you keep falling for poor quality women because you don’t understand that what you like about her has nothing to do with her and everything to do with your loneliness. Majority of men will fall in love with any pretty face regardless of red flags because they do anything to experience what I said above. I think majority of men are very lonely. They have friends, hobbies, etc but their is no intimacy in their lives. Some men even have a lot of women in their lives but these connections are shallow. Men are facing a depressing time because what motivated men in the past was women but now women literally suck. There’s no other way to put it but modern women inspire nothing but despair and disappointment in men. The sex is good but once it’s over it’s back to feeling empty. I’m pretty sure this is the case because modern women are empty inside. They have all lost their femininity due to the culture and feminism. Men know this deep down when they’re with a woman. They see some light in her eyes but they still know she’s lost. This is why we men fall in love with girls we don’t actually love. We are in love with the idea of love, not the actual girl. We also fall in love with the idea of saving her because this strokes our egos. Men will meet a girl, lie to himself that he loves her just so he can no longer feel numb but eventually it wears off. If your mind is stuck on a girl that you know isn’t the one deep down it’s because you’re disappointed, not sad. You’re disappointed that what you seek the most from women they can’t give you."

Couple of thoughts

- "It’s not that you want a relationship, you just want someone smiling at you"

Become a birthday clown then


-"Majority of men will fall in love with any pretty face regardless of red flags because they do anything to experience what I said above"


That's the behavior not of an emotionally mature and intellectually sound MAN, but of an impulse-driven child, who'd eat Twinkies for every meal + as comfort food, the minute they had the opportunity to do so. They can't be counted on to make sane, responsible decisions on their own. All of which goes to not just a problem with modern men, but a larger ailment within our society, the likes of which has been going on for the past four decades or so



We've been in the midst of a mass regression for a loooooooong f-cking time now, the likes of which has been more pronounced than usual, from The late 10s-Today
 

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Recently found this excerpt on Twitter (credit to @playboysparadox). Do you relate to this?
Maybe, what you really need to do, is to get rid of 'social media' and read a book once in a while.

Getting 'opinions' from Twitter is for teenagers. You're a grown man, act like one.
 

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Maybe, what you really need to do, is to get rid of 'social media' and read a book once in a while.

Getting 'opinions' from Twitter is for teenagers. You're a grown man, act like one.
Trying to start a debate here, brotha. Simply and nothing more than that.
 

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Trying to start a debate here, brotha. Simply and nothing more than that.
What use is a debate around the opinion of a twit on twitter? Do you have your own opinions, or do you borrow them from Twitter?

If you want a debate around somebody else's opinion, at least select a worthwhile reputable observation from someone who can formulate an informed opinion.
 

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What use is a debate around the opinion of a twit on twitter? Do you have your own opinions, or do you borrow them from Twitter?
I do have my own opinions. However, I like to read and learn about other opinions, regardless of the source. It's an important part of forming reasoning, and you, as a writer, know the importance of that.
 

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I do have my own opinions. However, I like to read and learn about other opinions, regardless of the source. It's an important part of forming reasoning, and you, as a writer, know the importance of that.
Not all opinions are created equal.

As a writer I make a distinction to the value I assign to an informed opinion based on the source.

I don't take my opinions from Twitter or other social media. FFS, the person you're quoting cannot even distinguish between 'literally' and 'figuratively' and confuses 'there' and 'their'. As a writer, I immediately disregard the opinion of anyone who cannot even write simple English.

Your lack of regard on who is opining fills your head with useless opinions from morons and affects your judgment.
 

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I don't take my opinions from Twitter or other social media. FFS, the person you're quoting cannot even distinguish between 'literally' and 'figuratively' and confuses 'there' and 'their'. As a writer, I immediately disregard the opinion of anyone who cannot even write simple English.
Good for you, bro. English is not my mother tongue, so I don't judge. I shared it here because of the message that the text provides.
 

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Good for you, bro. English is not my mother tongue, so I don't judge. I shared it here because of the message that the text provides.
Guess what? English is not my mother tongue either. Doesn't excuse me from checking my sources. Your English is good enough to display your ignorance that you value opinions regardless of the source. I'm telling you, the source is more important than the opinion.

To disregard that and to blame your limited grasp of the English language is just dumb.

Bro.
 

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Guess what? English is not my mother tongue either. Doesn't excuse me from checking my sources. Your English is good enough to display your ignorance that you value opinions regardless of the source. I'm telling you, the source is more important than the opinion.

To disregard that and to blame your limited grasp of the English language is just dumb.

Bro.
I think you've been too touched by the message of the text and are trying to take the focus away from the purpose of the thread through passive-aggressive comments.

I get you, bro. Keep going.
 

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I think you've been too touched by the message of the text and are trying to take the focus away from the purpose of the thread through passive-aggressive comments.

I get you, bro. Keep going.
Sure, keep on using words that you don't know the meaning of.
 
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