*Disclaimer* The first paragraph is most useful when you have already estabished something with the girl already. Also, this does not mean that the information on SoSuave.com is wrong. This is just another way to look at things. If something backfires becuase you took my advice to heart, quite whining and get back out there!*
I don't know if this has been posted before (most likely), but while talking to Whatsupwiddat online, I realized something...Actaully, the thought occured because of something that happend. The general consencous is: don't ask a girl out online and don't ASK for a date, assume the date. Well low and behold, Whatsupwiddat ASKED a girl out ONLINE and she said yes. Also, another friend of mine dresses like me (in other words, not all that great) and has a date with the hottest girl in school ...um...now actaully. What's the point I'm getting at? It's that you don't have to follow everything according to plan. The advice on here are guidelines, but you can also do things against the guidelines and still get the same results. Now I don't mean that you should beg a girl for a date on AIM, but you can still ask them out. Personally, I think it could be just as good as asking her in person. True, you don't have the eye contact, kino, and you can't judge her reaction, but if you get all sweaty and shaky when talking to her in person, asking her out online might not be so bad. Or, if she's shy, you don't really want to boss her around and scare her off, do you? Asking might not be that bad.
Something else I want to point out...some of you want approaches and lines for different situations. That's a bad idea. Do you want to be standing there thinking, "alright, she's at the counter by herself, her purse is on her left shoulder, and her hair is around her shoulders. Time for line number seventy-three." Unless you have no life (like me at the moment), then you shouldn't worry about a line for every situation. Come up with one line to use. No matter what the situation is. Now, so I don't contridict what I wrote a paragraph ago, you could also come up with two lines. One for school and one for outside of school. Choice is yours. Just like "ask her out online, in person, or on the phone?" Hmm...*idea for next post.* Stick around for that one soon.
-Crazykid
P.S. I'm BAAAACK!!!
I don't know if this has been posted before (most likely), but while talking to Whatsupwiddat online, I realized something...Actaully, the thought occured because of something that happend. The general consencous is: don't ask a girl out online and don't ASK for a date, assume the date. Well low and behold, Whatsupwiddat ASKED a girl out ONLINE and she said yes. Also, another friend of mine dresses like me (in other words, not all that great) and has a date with the hottest girl in school ...um...now actaully. What's the point I'm getting at? It's that you don't have to follow everything according to plan. The advice on here are guidelines, but you can also do things against the guidelines and still get the same results. Now I don't mean that you should beg a girl for a date on AIM, but you can still ask them out. Personally, I think it could be just as good as asking her in person. True, you don't have the eye contact, kino, and you can't judge her reaction, but if you get all sweaty and shaky when talking to her in person, asking her out online might not be so bad. Or, if she's shy, you don't really want to boss her around and scare her off, do you? Asking might not be that bad.
Something else I want to point out...some of you want approaches and lines for different situations. That's a bad idea. Do you want to be standing there thinking, "alright, she's at the counter by herself, her purse is on her left shoulder, and her hair is around her shoulders. Time for line number seventy-three." Unless you have no life (like me at the moment), then you shouldn't worry about a line for every situation. Come up with one line to use. No matter what the situation is. Now, so I don't contridict what I wrote a paragraph ago, you could also come up with two lines. One for school and one for outside of school. Choice is yours. Just like "ask her out online, in person, or on the phone?" Hmm...*idea for next post.* Stick around for that one soon.
-Crazykid
P.S. I'm BAAAACK!!!
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