"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You ARE Important. So Act like it.

Call_Me_Daddy

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Fellas. If you really value yourselves you will get off the site and all this negativity that's posted here. It is hurting your game and you're becoming addicted to it after awhile.

Get out of here and listen to some Tony Robbins or something to get that sh!t out of your heads.


And for god's sake. Grow some BALLS fellas. Its time to be men and not give a sh!t about miniscule things like "she said, he said". Its really not important.


What is important is YOU. Not the b!tch, not her friend, not what she says or thinks. Its YOU.

Take some Pride in who you are and what you do and get off the site. (and don't go to a new one either.) Its only loser talk. You don't deserve to listen to it.

Get off the site and find some positivity and strength in yourselves, and in your lives. And if it doesn't exist yet... create it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Call_Me_Daddy

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One more thing. Don't be reading this and going "oh... okay. I got it."

No YOU DON'T. The only way you will ever see what I am talking about is if you ACTUALLY DO IT.

Now I wish I could go over to your house and make you turn off your PC and give you a kick in the ass to get you started.

But that's not happening.

You are going to have to do it yourself. Turn the PC of and don't turn it on again and DON'T log into SoSuave or any other site.

Turn it off.

Now.





Its time to value and respect who YOU are. You don't need SoSuave.

If you really need guidance.... Find yourself a mentor.
 

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So I guess this is going to be the last post from Call_Me_Daddy that anyone sees now that he's gotten the idea himself and has moved on?
 

Call_Me_Daddy

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Deadly_Ripped said:
So I guess this is going to be the last post from Call_Me_Daddy that anyone sees now that he's gotten the idea himself and has moved on?
Exactly. Move on.

I have and I won't be logging in again for months again.

You would not believe the BS i can see on the site. I can literally see the negativity on each page.

Imagine the people who actually have some of this stuff running through their heads. Its nasty. It hurts your game.

Only positivity can help you succeed.
 

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You know I agree. Its really hard to move on when you are so used to having this mental masturbation. I'm trying to limit my time here (hasn't worked so far). But now that you mention it this site is so damn negative. Back in 2k5 prior to the game this site was real positive.
I;m not being a hater to all of the ppl who got into this after the game, but I think there was a key difference. The ppl who found this site prior to the game were people who were really motivated to go out and find random resources that were not in huge demand at the time. Therefore they tended to be more motivated and really wanted to improve and help each other. After the game there has been a lot of trolls and really negative ppl who don;t give a **** about improving themselves and only want ego strokes and laying tons of chicks. Not all ppl but alot. And the mods don;t really do a good job. So ya "don;t hate, embrace". That being said I;m largely switching off of sosuave to a different more supportive site that is way less of a crutch. Which reminds me, crutches do more harm than good in the long run, and I really gotta work to get rid of mine. I hope I don;t look back and say all these things and get nowhere. HAHA. Our time is now :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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