Yesterday night I had dinner with a group of same age "adults"

[Who Dares Win]

Im talking about people in their late 20s and early 30s like me except that they looked more like "adults" from a relational point of view.

They were all in a LTR, they mostly were either living togheter or working togheter, they had their night for pizza and their night staying home basically like "adults".

I felt really strange, not good nor bad just different since I basically live not any different than when I was in my early 20s, my friend whos single and is not used to have couple nights and basically just like me is a social loose dog was kinda sad and depressed while I personally see pros and cons of both sides.

At this age people starts to "get serious" when it comes of relationships and life style, personally I pass right now.

What do you think?

 

[Solomon]

Do whatever you wish who gives a shyt

There's Pros and Cons to the "Hubby Life" as I call it.

As there is Pros and Cons to the single life

 

[Mike32ct]

I have mixed feelings when I am around shall we say domesticated* people.

1. On one hand, I’m genuinely very happy for them if they found a great LTR and life niche.

2. On the other hand, I feel out of place and am totally unable to contribute to the conversation because I can’t relate to anything they are saying. I’ll go from quiet guy to full mute in such situations. (This will be coming up soon with family holiday gatherings.)

3. Once I leave such a gathering, it’s a huge relief.

*Just using this as a term. Neutral, not derogatory.

 

[peanutbuttablunts]

first things first: its totally poisonous to compare yourself to others

i have had this encounter before. i like entertaining people but, at a certain point, if you aren't on my level, why even try to talk to me? I have 2 roommates that try to like ...idk...talk to me? its really ****ing strange because i couldn't give any less of a **** about what they have to say to me. the vibe i get is "where did peanutbutta **** up in life to still be single, making music, doing his thang" like bish we are all on the same echelon of existence. how did you **** up in life to have to live somewhere where you give a **** about what the people around you are doing beyond: are the dishes clean, can you hear the music. if the dishes are clean, im paying my bills and you can't hear my music. then **** right off.

sorry lol this was mostly a rant but people are ****ing weird.

last things last: its totally poisonous to compare yourself to others