yes or no?

[Jaun_Don]

maybe we should meet up another time then

I can't work out if this girl is keen to meet me or not,oh I have the flu and told her this (she had it last week) we chat every night on MSN and have spoken twice on the phone, we seem to have a good rapport with each other too as we laugh a lot and give each other **** and she tells me a lot of personal things...but yeah is Maybe a No or Yes?...confused...any clues?.

thanks

 

[Jaun_Don]

...anyone come on help a sick man out pleassssseee...

 

[gixxer]

Bro, can you give more details?!?!?!? She said "maybe we can make it another time" to you? I need to know the context.

gix

 

[Jaun_Don]

sure what do you need to know?...I have asked to meet up with her with a few times but I feel like she isnt sure...which is cool but I just want her to be straight with me, everything that happened with the drama queen I live with has taught me a lot and I feel like a different man to be honest.

That message was sent via e-mail and she is really good at answering my messages I have noticed.

 

[penkitten]

thats a hard one.

get her number and call her.

you will be able to tell by the tone of her voice if she is putting you off or not.

 

[gixxer]

If you've asked her to meet up and she hasn't that's your answer. If you really want to you could blow her off for a few days or a week and then mail her again like nothing happened.

But the bottom line is if you've asked and got no date it's time to say ------ NEXT!!!!

gix

 

[flexion_]

You are kinda' vaige but essentially it works like this - if you like her ask her out. Stop with the MSN chatting and long phone conversations.

Ask her out - if she flakes you have your answer. Stop trying to be a palm reader, grab your balls and ask her out!

 

[Jaun_Don]

all true...we we were supposed to meet this weekend but I have the flu so...

 

[scordate]

the crucial question is;

have you asked her for a specific date or just gone;
meet sometime, yes ?

unless you have asked for a specific date;
next monday 17:30 at Starbucks

you cant tell

mail / phone whatever but ask for specific date and see what happens;
( hint - is she says no without offering a substitute; next her )

/ scordate

 

[gixxer]

Good call, scordate! Clear and to the point.

gix

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by scordate
the crucial question is;

have you asked her for a specific date or just gone;
meet sometime, yes ?

unless you have asked for a specific date;
next monday 17:30 at Starbucks

you cant tell

mail / phone whatever but ask for specific date and see what happens;
( hint - is she says no without offering a substitute; next her )

/ scordate

ahhhhh...awesome...forgive me I have the flu and am a little blocked up so I'm not thinking that straight, that makes brilliant sense.



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