"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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wtf just happen?

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Ok, so I was talking to this chick on AIM messanger for about 10-15 minutes. We met through true.com. We talked about her siblings and other trivia ****. She mentioned a TV show that I had no idea about, and this is what happined.


Me: Not much of a TV guy
Her: me either
Her: i just think its so funny
Me: Well i'd hope your not a TV guy (i said that joking about the guy part)
Her: i am
Her: im a guy
Me: lol
Her: I have the worlds biggest penis
Me: Dammit, i thought I did
Her: Nope
Her: I do

Then she logged off.

Was I out of line joking about the her not being a TV guy part?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LMAO

No, I don't think you were out of line. Probably just someone messing around.
 

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well, he/she logged back on like 5 minutes later. I asked what that was about. He/she responded "internets a *****". I just then blocked the SN. I guess I just got played, lol.
 

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Thank god you found this place dude.
Posting about problems you have with chicks on true.com will be a thing of the past....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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problems on true.com lol the only place that is remotly even close to being good, is Eharmony but it cost a butt load.. but for a good reason.. you avoid crap like that.
 

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Hoogie said:
Thank god you found this place dude.
Posting about problems you have with chicks on true.com will be a thing of the past....
Ya, I only did it because they offered the 7 day free trial, which i will be calling them telling em to cancel, haha. Im so embarassed right now, how could I let something this stupid happin, lol.
 

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Nothing to be embarrassed about bro, it happens to all of us. Considering the way the internet is these days, I wouldn't be surprised if you were actually dealing with a guy (I'm not trying to spook ya), but from what I can see, you did nothing wrong.

Your first reaction was 'did i do something wrong?', my question is WHY? Why did you automatically think it was something YOU did? That's bull$hit. If this was actually a girl, you have no way of knowing if she had been chatting with idiots all day and wasn't in the mood for jokes, maybe she was PMS'ing, maybe she is married and her hubby walked in the door, you never know what the deal is. Don't automatically think it's something YOU did.

I agree with Raikojo17, if you are going to use these sites, don't waste to much time 'chatting' online. You are there to meet people, not chat buddies.

Good Luck
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nah dude you were funny and i've made that joke before too, absolutely nothing u did wrong there

however there was some AFC fruit talking to you who had nothing better to do than to pose as a girl

don't worry about it, and be the player that you are

DON'T DOUBT YOURSELF :)
 

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Kings_royalty said:
Nothing to be embarrassed about bro, it happens to all of us. Considering the way the internet is these days, I wouldn't be surprised if you were actually dealing with guy (I'm not trying to spook ya), but from what I can see, you did nothing wrong.

Your first reaction was 'did i do something wrong?', my question is WHY? Why did you automatically think it was something YOU did? That's bull$hit. If this was actually a girl, you have no way of knowing if she had been chatting with idiots all day and wasn't in the mood for jokes, maybe she was PMS'ing, maybe she is married and her hubby walked in the door, you never know what the deal is. Don't automatically think it's something YOU did.

I agree with Raikojo17, if you are going to use these sites, don't waste to much time 'chatting' online. You are there to meet people, not chat buddies.

Good Luck

Ya, your right. He/she did seem kinda pissed throughout the conversations. But either way, I blocked that ho, not gonna take disrespect like that even if it was a girl.
 

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alphaace said:
Ya, your right. He/she did seem kinda pissed throughout the conversations. But either way, I blocked that ho, not gonna take disrespect like that even if it was a girl.
I wouldn't have been so quick to block her. Next time give it about a week or so, it's hard to judge a person by 'one' chat. Granted, it's not a way to start off the introductions, but she might have her 'b*tch shield' turned all the way up because of the idiots out there; can't really blame her if that's the case.

Sometimes you have to work through the 'b*tch shield', don't take it personal. It's probably the 10 guys she (generally speaking) chatted with before you that got her behaving that way. Something to think about.
 

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Meh, its a possibility she did have her b1tch sheild all the way up, but i've never seen anyone react that way to a harmless joke. I unblocked her, although I wont be starting any conversations. If she does message me, first thing ill do is ask for the digits. If anything happins ill keep you post, soley for a commical relief.
 

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I really doubt that the joke was the reason why she left. Dont knock down the possibility that she got disconnected and was too lazy to log back in or maybe she had to go somwhere etc.
Me: Dammit, i thought I did
If you had said this like "No, actually I do" you would get a better effect (its more C&F). Good luck
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ahaha, so after I got back from class today and turned my computer on, this person instantly IM'd me. This is what happened.

Me: so what was that about
Her: internets a *****
Me:i guess so

Thats how last nights conversation ended

Todays

Her: hi!
Me: ...
Her: whats the ... for?
Me: i guess you dont remember last night?
Her: wait... what?
Her: my computer kept ****ing up on me i dont know. i remember talking to you and then signing back on and you immediately signed off
Her: =/
Me: mmmhmmm, well, to refresh you a little. You said you were a guy and logged off.
Her: oh man
Her: i have this ongoing joke with my gay friend bob
Her: about how im more a man than he is
Me: oh really
Her: and he has a ***** and i have this big huge ****.
Her: i guess you'd just have to be there to understand
Her: i was kidding XD
Me: then why did you tell me "internets a *****" when i asked what that was about
Her: i thought you meant what was my signing on and off 3 times about
Her: im sorry
Me: I see
Me: Well, how about you give me your number so we dont have this problem again. Ya know, just to make sure your not lieing
Her: i would
Her: but
Her: i have no phone
Her: =/
Her: its in ACJ right now
Me: Sorry, kinda new to the city, what is ACJ?
Her: haha
Her: ****** county jail.

We just talked from there.

Im still skeptical to believe this story, and the whole jail thing could be a red flag anyway.
 

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COULD be a red flag??

There used to be a site called girlproblems.com for threads such as this :confused:
 
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Say "NO" to Hos and Ho-mos!!!!!
 
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