"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jair213

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And I thought I atleast had an alpha friend.
I was terribly wrong.

Dude posted on fb an album of pics of him
And his new gf.

On one of the pictures he posted said
''She changed the game for me''

the day they got together
I saw that same day he posted on his wall
''Happy''
That same day they became exclusive.

In the pictures he looks really in love and but seems
Really AFC and submissive too her.

The dude is really good looking. He's an actor, works
For Disney and has done a couple of commercials.

I am in total shock.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RedZone

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You shouldn't worry about other people. Just worry about yourself.
 

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Jair213,


All may not be lost, but it doesn't look good, bro'. It's always a dicey move to "declare your undying affection" for a woman on ANY public social media platform. It's possible that he may be able sober up enough from the intoxicating effects of being "head over heels" and STILL remember that he needs to be THE MAN----or it may not.

Regardless, you'll KNOW it's all over for him if you see him on a talk show acting so giddy over the chick that he pulls a stunt like THIS:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GNrB6qpmNwg
 

Jair213

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RedZone said:
You shouldn't worry about other people. Just worry about yourself.
He's like a brother to me. I looked up to him. Always admired how easy is for him to pull
Girls.

I am not judging him nor am I saying all of this in a negative way. But ever since he got
With this chick he's being investing to much time on her. Never seeing him like this.
I thought he had sharp dj/alpha game. :nervous:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you're saying he's not alpha for falling in love, then you are judging him.

Alphas still fall in love. But they will put up with a lot less sh!t when the love turns sour.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
If you're saying he's not alpha for falling in love, then you are judging him.

Alphas still fall in love. But they will put up with a lot less sh!t when the love turns sour.
No I'm not trying to say that.
 

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Loads of betas are born everyday.

Let him enjoy it while it lasts. Once her hypergamy kicks in as a result of his beta co-dependency, she will "change the game for him" AGAIN.. :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Good looks does not an alpha make.

Just because he is an actor doesn't mean he is not open to an a$$ raping by women. There are all sorts of Hollywood fagg0ts pedestalizing women and drooling after them.
 

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PlayHer did you mother abuse you as a kid ? Was she even there ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jair213 said:
He's like a brother to me. I looked up to him. Always admired how easy is for him to pull
Girls.

I am not judging him nor am I saying all of this in a negative way. But ever since he got
With this chick he's being investing to much time on her. Never seeing him like this.
I thought he had sharp dj/alpha game. :nervous:
This is why you don't judge / assume / idolize other people. There's no such thing as a perfect person - despite the image they potray, how they might feel about certain situations at times, or how you WANT them to be.

****, no one expected that David D. fag to get married - much less to an unattractive bish. Lotta my ex-"alpha" friends who played around like no other ended up getting married, or otherwise living more stable and not into the social gig anymore.
 

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Jair,

I go by a different username, and I have encountered what your friend went through, settling down for intimacy. 4 years I can never get back and FVCK THE 10 POST RESTRICTION. I am a Don Juan, I live life without restrictions!

Your friend is a male model, meaning he had an abundance of options. He decided to fall in love with this one girl. He NEVER had the alpha or DJ mindset. He was merely a man pulling tail and succumbed to a woman that treated him best (temporarily.) She now has him by the balls and there is ABSOLUTELY nothing he can do about it. Another one bites the dust.
 
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