"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WTF!! Girl's friend sticks his tongue in her month!!

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Heres how I see it.


Never go by what women say always judge them by their actions.


She called the guy a friend but he is anything but a friend. They had a 'thing' togethar and he's still after her as she said but that doesn't make sense because she's still hanging around with him. We all know that women run from AFC's and are creeped out by AFC's.


She obviously likes the guy. He knew that too and thats why he kissed her and thats why she let him. After it happened you seemed to become irrelevant to her because she was only thinging about the other guy.


saber said:
she played you two against each other.

Thats correct, or to be more precise she used the OP to make the 'friend' jealous.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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slaog said:
She obviously likes the guy. He knew that too and thats why he kissed her and thats why she let him. After it happened you seemed to become irrelevant to her because she was only thinging about the other guy.
yep, that would explain her behavior. Whatever, she wasn't even that good looking, I can easily get a better looking girl, she just had a kicking body.
 

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Kal0051 said:
Whatever, I'll keep seeing her if she wants too. But right now she's acting weird (she says she confused about something) so I won't bring up us hanging out for a bit.

It's unlikely shes interested in you. From my own experiance, usually when women are acting weird it means they've no interest in you. Do yourself a favour and move on or at least don't expect anything to happen with this girl. Theres plenty of more fish in the sea. ;)
 
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