"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wtf @ dating website reply after number close

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HappyHarryHardon

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me:

aww lucky, near the city! i'm in all the way down in <location> but i'm planning on moving closer to the city soon. always wanted to live close to a city lol.

let's take this party offline toots! give me your number and ill give you a call sometime for a little hang out and get to know each other more. i promise i won't wear anything pink! :) (because my profile pic has a pink towel in the background for drying hands - was in the bathroom)

her:
Thanks but i do have to take into account you called me toots..!



WTF ??? i don't get it. don't even know how to reply to that. is she saying i offended her by calling her toots?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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r0cky

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I think this is her saying no in a nice way. I would respond with something like "Ok i guess that means no. I was under the impression you were adventurous. take care"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She's just on the edge of interested or she would have moved the conversation toward meeting up. Don't take it personally, you're just one of the many she is chatting (toying) with. I've had girls literally begging to meet up and the next day they flake or I never hear from them again, I can't explain it but that's what you get with online dating.

Just saw this on a girls profile and it pretty much sums up the experience: "my friend told me about this site where I can pretty much sit back and shop for guys! What more could a girl ask for?!"

Unbelieveable.
 
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She isn't making an effort to go out with you, so the interest is low. She will probably be meeting other guys this week. I've gotten ALOT of number from POF, I've had ALOT of girls agree to go out with me. Most flake. If she wants you, there will be no guessing or deciphering her messages...she will agree and meet with you when you ask and it will be as simple as that.

Crap like the message she gave you says to me she's doing the same thing with several other guys and will only pick one of course
 
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