OK... here goes. I've known this girl for a while now, and we've been close friends now for a few months. I've always been interested in her, and she's given plenty of hints that she is interested in me. Problem -> She has a boyfriend.
Now, here is where my question comes into play....
Until early this afternoon, we've never talked about sex... and she stumbled upon one of her boyfriends magazines, while talking to me on our daily phone calls... we touched base on the magazine a few times... then I forget how it all happened, but she ended up having phone sex with me! (I was at work, so I was just doing the talking... she was right into it) I volunteered to join her, but she said "I can't, I have a boyfriend” etc... so I respected that... but common, she's doing this.... so I don't think it's a problem. Not to mention, she HATES her boyfriend... seriously, and wants to dump him, but currently cant into details I can't get into, as this is getting long enough as it is.
When we go to the movies tonight, to which we'll be alone, what should I do? I have one move, that I think might work... but what if she says "But I have a boyfriend" what should I reply to that? is there a smooth way of getting past that? I've tried the "But he's not here" and "Don't worry about him" and so on, but it doesn't seem to have an effect.
Do you think "it's just you and me tonight...." would work? any tid bits? I'd like to have her ask "So what are you thinking about" just once, so I can say "this" as I grab her, and start making out with her. I'm sure she would melt as I tried that.... but if she interrupts and says "we can't, I have a boyfriend" what should I say?
I HOPE someone can give me some help, I really like this girl, and think this is a perfect opportunity to show her how I feel.
Now, here is where my question comes into play....
Until early this afternoon, we've never talked about sex... and she stumbled upon one of her boyfriends magazines, while talking to me on our daily phone calls... we touched base on the magazine a few times... then I forget how it all happened, but she ended up having phone sex with me! (I was at work, so I was just doing the talking... she was right into it) I volunteered to join her, but she said "I can't, I have a boyfriend” etc... so I respected that... but common, she's doing this.... so I don't think it's a problem. Not to mention, she HATES her boyfriend... seriously, and wants to dump him, but currently cant into details I can't get into, as this is getting long enough as it is.
When we go to the movies tonight, to which we'll be alone, what should I do? I have one move, that I think might work... but what if she says "But I have a boyfriend" what should I reply to that? is there a smooth way of getting past that? I've tried the "But he's not here" and "Don't worry about him" and so on, but it doesn't seem to have an effect.
Do you think "it's just you and me tonight...." would work? any tid bits? I'd like to have her ask "So what are you thinking about" just once, so I can say "this" as I grab her, and start making out with her. I'm sure she would melt as I tried that.... but if she interrupts and says "we can't, I have a boyfriend" what should I say?
I HOPE someone can give me some help, I really like this girl, and think this is a perfect opportunity to show her how I feel.
thanks for the tip! I'll definately try that (We had to postpone our date till tomorrow, but i'll definatly try that.