"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow I just realized how powerful Teasing + humor - pedestal is powerful with girls

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Before I came to this site, I *was* putting girls on a pedestal (silly old me) and there was this girl I liked but she didn't like me back because of that. Now we are just friends. Obviously

Anyways I changed my ways and now I act with her in a teasing manner and I already feel as in she's gaining interest in me (maybe not to the extent of liking me, but I know she values our friendship MUCH more then before)

Good stuff the tease + humour, good stuff indeed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, it's good stuff...but don't do what I did.

Women who you knew before adding ****y+funny to your personality are OFF LIMITS for VERY good reasons. I'm a firm believer they'll just never see you as a sexual being and any attempts made by you toward that end are best directed toward other & new women. I think it's a bit like conditioning - once they see you as a friend, they'll never even consider the fact you have a penis they might like to sit on.
 
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Prof said:
Yeah, it's good stuff...but don't do what I did.

Women who you knew before adding ****y+funny to your personality are OFF LIMITS for VERY good reasons. I'm a firm believer they'll just never see you as a sexual being and any attempts made by you toward that end are best directed toward other & new women. I think it's a bit like conditioning - once they see you as a friend, they'll never even consider the fact you have a penis they might like to sit on.
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Yea I know that I'm not trying to win her over. As a matter of fact, it's thanks to her that I realised that I was acting like an AFC, then I decided it was time to change and discovered this website and for some reason I felt like I had to tell her. But I am in no way, shape or from hoping that she will fall in love with me; she is just a friend now.

Plus, nothing wrong with some practice ;)
 
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