"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wow, I did somthing stupid last night...

KG33

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I got drunk last night and I was already in a bad mood(not a good combo). So I began texting this girl I used to date. We only dated a couple of times. At first I thought she was cool but then she just turned out to be too much of a liar and a flake so I nexted her. Well last night, while I was drunk, my dumba$$ starts sending her text msgs asking her "why she was such a liar?" and $hit like that. Of course she acted all innocent and like she didn't know what I was talking about. Today, I'm sure she is bragging to her friends about how she made a guy act a "crazy" and $hit. Damn, you have to be careful when you're drinking. It can get you sometimes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shivastorm_88

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KG33 said:
I got drunk last night and I was already in a bad mood(not a good combo). So I began texting this girl I used to date. We only dated a couple of times. At first I thought she was cool but then she just turned out to be too much of a liar and a flake so I nexted her. Well last night, while I was drunk, my dumba$$ starts sending her text msgs asking her "why she was such a liar?" and $hit like that. Of course she acted all innocent and like she didn't know what I was talking about. Today, I'm sure she is bragging to her friends about how she made a guy act a "crazy" and $hit. Damn, you have to be careful when you're drinking. It can get you sometimes.
Why should you even care what she thinks of you if you nexted her?
 

CaptainJ

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If you nexted her properly you would have deleted her number. Make sure you do, and it stops these drunk texts from happening.
 
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