Wow guess I just can't pickup with an audience.

[fruitopiax]

Damn I feel kinda stupid right now to be honest. Ok so I'm in the bus right sitting in the back and this girl walks in and we make slight eye contact, she then proceeds to sit in a seat a couple rows in front of me, but I can tell she sees me checking her out and she backs out and moves to the seat in front of me. The way the bus is set up I was looking at the side of her face while she was staring out the window. The very back seats are perpendicular to the side seats. Then she sits down and takes out a journal and starts writing in it, I then think (although to be honest, not 100% sure) I see her almost start to rip one of the pages out, but she stops and just puts the journal away. Then later on she takes out her ipod, puts in on ear piece like shes about to listen to music, but then just puts it away again.

So anyways she happens to get off at my stop, but she has to go right instead of straight like me and she goes into another bus booth. So I'm walking for awhile and I turn around and see her in the distance looking at me, but in the booth with her is another hot girl and I just lost my nerve.

If she had been alone I honestly would have had no problems approaching her, I was even thinking of doing the apocalypse opener to her since I lived right nearby and even if she had rejected me I woulda felt good about just doing it, but the other chick was there.. *sigh* so I ended up turning around and walking by the booth she was in without making eye contact. Then a couple seconds later she got on her second bus. I felt like such a pvssy.

Anyone else like this? How do I get over this ****? Seriously 1 on 1 solo I have no problems approaching a chick, especially one that I think might be interested... but an audience screws everything up.

 

[stoner1129]

Well was the bus very packed? If not why didn't you do it there? To me it seems like she was waiting for you to approach her there, but you never did. Anyways, I think that you just have to do it, don't care what other people are going to think if they see you approach a hot girl or if they hear what you say, it shouldn't matter what other people think.

 

[Bigdavis]

I've forgotten what the "apocalypse" opener is? Refresh my memory...

One thing you have to remember, girls aren't "allowed" to approach or at least they feel like they aren't. The best they can do is try to look cute, try to look available and hope that cute guy over there will have the balls to approach. Make the approach! You might just make her day...

 

[619joe]

I have situations like this all the time bro.

I had one today infact and yeah it is kinda pressuring and its OK to feel that I even do.If its a situation where I can see the girl for a good while (some social event) then sometimes I like to wait for a good opportunity,cause face it they aint gonna be with their friends or have people around them 24/7 there ARE loopholes.Otherwise in this situation you cant really wait around bro.

I tend to think of people as my audience to watch my skill.Show them whos the man