"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Would you turn down group date?

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Scought

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I met this woman last weekend while watching My Oregon Ducks lose to Florida Gators. I got her number, and we had a lot in common, so I called her this week. She called and invited me to watch the Final 4 with her and some friends at a pub tomorrow.

Would you go?

Because I picked her up during the day, with friends around, and because I wanted to 'learn more about finding a job' (she is a teacher and I am a student teacher) I don't want it to become to friendly. I want to date her, and make her understand it is a date. Does this make sense? I don't want to just be a buddy she met watching our alma mater.

Should I say no, and re-schedule for a one-on-one date?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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