Would you remain loyal to your GF if you were going to leave her country of residenc

[zinc4]

I currently live in Taiwan, but am about to leave to go back to the states 4 months from now and will never return....

I have a great GF of 2 years here, but at this point i am wondering what is the point of not trying to bang other chicks before i leave and return home. What would you guys do in this situation....silently bang other chicks with no remorse or remain faithful only to be a single man in 4 months? Just don't want to have to feel guilty...my moral compass is spinning out of control on this issue.

 

[doctorj]

why not break up with her first?

 

[zinc4]

yeah, i just don't want to go through her begging and crying and stuff like that...last girl i broke up with pulled a major guilt trip on me...i am really bad at breaking up with people

 

[Mr. Bond]

Well, for me it wouldn't even be an issue. You say she has been a great Girlfriend. Why would you do this to her?

As far as banging other chicks with no remorse.........I would have remorse. And guilt. And to be honest? I wouldn't NOT cheat for HER benefit, I wouldn't cheat for MY benefit. I don't need that **** in my life. Guilt, remorse, shame.....fukkkk that. I don't need it. I try to live my life straight up, and be fair with other's. It helps me to NOT be a door mat and tell someone to FUKKKK OFF when I know I have been fair and honest.

Helps me sleep at night too.

NOW, if the girl was a shady GF, or always arguing, or picking fights, or nagging or demanding, etc? I would simply wait for her to pull one of those BITCCCHHHY episodes, then say "Know what? I have had enough, goodbye"

THEN you are free to pound Taiwan into sumission my friend!



I guess I will be called a white knight or AFC for this, if so......oh well:

The purpose of this forum, for me anyways, is to learn how to better ourselves, and become better MEN. MEN. We piss and moan about women sluttttting around.............and no one has less respect for that than me. Then why would we consider it ok? In the end, YOU are the only person who has to live with YOUR choice here. The fact that you have said "Just don't want to have to feel guilty...my moral compass is spinning out of control on this issue." tells me you already HAVE the answer that is right for YOU. Good luck.

I don't even know why I post on here anymore. We have the exact same opinions. You're so fvcking right. The focus is on you. The focus is on being the best man possible.

I wouldn't cheat on her, and I wouldn't break up with her early just to bang a bunch of different chicks because I know I'm leaving. It's pretty clear you'd feel bad about yourself.

Also, who knows? Maybe she will follow you someday.

Odds are high you're going to have to break up with her if you leave the country. I tried that sh!t once when I was 19, and after a few months, it just doesn't work. If you don't see someone, you're just pen pals.

 

[j0504s]

Ialso completely agree with mauser and bond...if shes a great girl u need to look inside and see why u want to do this. First off in my opinion dont be that guy who cheats. Idk how old you are or ypur sexual history...but what is your reasoning? Do your sexcpades feel unfulfilled? Idk but id be interested to know why...you want to so badly? Let us know!