"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would you recommened sexting?

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Never put any EMOTION or FEELING in texting. Like RUG said, she can do it, you CANT. It’s way too risky, even if you have slept with her several several times.

Before you text anything risky, assume the girl you are texting has taken you to court for $$$$, and the text is going to be read in front of 12 jurors who are feminists and a judge who is about equality for women, and the courtroom is packed with Disney execs who made millions writing and directing a movie about the guy jumping through 800 hoops to get the girl, and the girl in the movie became a major major superstar because of the movie.

May make you think twice.:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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More like social media or if it's really raunchy it can be used against me in some way, shape or form. Happens to plenty of guys here in NYC. It's what they do. However, do what you like. I run a business, anything risque in text could hurt my business. Not worth the fallout for my business.
I have never heard of this happening to a normal guy. First of all, unless you’re famous, the reputational damage to the girl is higher than it is to the guy. Second, how exactly does this hurt your business? Is a business partner going to back out of a deal because some crazy hookup of yours posted a Facebook status where you texted her something sexual? And even if that leaked, denying it is extremely easy...You could just say that she renamed a contact with your name and the entire allegation is false. This is all so unlikely to happen. The only thing anyone on the internet cares about is female nudes.
 
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