Would you prefer to date a harridan over a young woman because she is "confident"?

[MatureDJ]

Evidently, this article seems to think so ...

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/one-word-magnetize-man-075400322.html

 

[zekko]

This is one of the reasons I am always suspicious when I read advice about seduction and attraction.

Obviously you don't want a woman who is a basket case because she is so insecure. But really, why would I care if a woman has a lot of confidence? I can see that a certain amount of confidence is sexy, but I find women that are too confident off putting. You want a girl with a positive attitude, but for the most part I see confidence as a masculine trait.

You can tell that a woman wrote this article. I think she's projecting what she wants in a man, and deciding that men will be drawn to the same thing. It's the same type of woman who thinks guys should be attracted to women who work on building a big career.

I like what one of the comments on the article said: "Unfortunately these days, confidence translates into arrogance and selfishness".

 

[Who Dares Win]

Agree with Zecco, women project what they want in men plus almost everywoman now as a irrationally high confidence and sky high ego due to social networks, pvssy starved men, media e friend circles which being them like kids translates into arrogance and cvntish behaviour and entitlement attitude.

Those women should simply realize that a man wants a decent looking girl with a as low as possible c0ck count and which will take care of them, men need game to get girls wet nad bang them while girls need "game" (being feminine and generous) to keep them.

Sure with no game they can keep afcs and much as us with no game can bang fatties, but is that the end game? NO

 

[PlayHer Man]

I'm not attracted to "strong women" at all. I like submissive women I can dominate. Deep down this is what all men want.

The lack of submissive women is what fuels a lot of the issues modern men have today. This is why the majority of modern women are not relationship material. They "love themselves" a little too much. Way too much arrogance, entitlement and YES "confidence". They are confident when they have no reason to be. They think they know better than you on every subject. They think their opinion trumps yours on every subject. They don't take advice or criticism well. They are rebellious. Its annoying.

Confidence is a MASCULINE trait. Its most attractive on MEN. Its only attractive on women in small doses.

There is nothing more irritating than a woman who believes she is "the sh!t". I'll be the judge of that!

I'll take low self-esteem any day over arrogance.

 

[Mike32ct]

It's an other guru giving some more BS advice. "Looks don't matter. Just be confident." Only this time, they are giving that advice to women.

 

[yyc12]

I'll take low self-esteem any day over arrogance.

Careful what you wish for, . Both are equally bad.

 

[origin138]

I'll take low self-esteem any day over arrogance.

Both can be ugly and elicit all kinds of sh!tty behavior. Arrogance, however, carries a special kind of repulsiveness. I love how the modern woman expects men to be impressed/turned on by her occupation and accomplishments. The other night I was talking to an HB8 at happy hour, rather, she was talking to me. She rambled on for 15 minutes about herself before mumbling the obvious & predictable "So what do you do for a living?" line. I picked up my drink and walked away without saying a word, pissed at myself for giving this broad 15 minutes of my time. Could have been worse I suppose.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Careful what you wish for, . Both are equally bad.

For relationships I suppose.

But women with low self-esteem at least make great sex toys. Arrogant women are completely useless. Even in bed its "all about them".

F*ck that.

 

[Down Low]

Both can be ugly and elicit all kinds of sh!tty behavior. Arrogance, however, carries a special kind of repulsiveness. I love how the modern woman expects men to be impressed/turned on by her occupation and accomplishments. The other night I was talking to an HB8 at happy hour, rather, she was talking to me. She rambled on for 15 minutes about herself before mumbling the obvious & predictable "So what do you do for a living?" line. I picked up my drink and walked away without saying a word, pissed at myself for giving this broad 15 minutes of my time. Could have been worse I suppose.

She said:

"I am a big, powerful man with a big, powerful d1ck, and here's why: blah blah blah blah...

"Oh yeah, almost forgot. You. Pvssy. How much money do you make, and, for fact-checking purposes, how do you make it?"