"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Would you date a girl with no career/education?

captain55

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Assuming she was hot as hell, made good money being a ****tail waitress/bartender, and was a decent chick.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't care about education per se but I do care about job. I will not date a woman in a low end job. Not that I think I'm a better human being then her because I really don't. But time after time after time I've dated these women in sh!t jobs or on State assistance and they all have money problems. Sooner or later the stress from their money problems would bleed to the relationship and muddy it. Like one wanting me to give her gas money to come see me. Or one who told me I had things handed to me too easily when I would spend my money on things she wanted but couldn't afford like a concert ticket or nice hotel room. But even the ones I know that do have good jobs can't manage their money either. but they are far less of a headache to deal with than the ones in the low-paying jobs.
 

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No problem at all. I don't want a career woman trying to make me fit into her limited schedule.
 

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Yes.... Is this a trick question? If she is hot and fun I honestly do not give a flying fvck what she does for a living as long as it's legal.

The women I'm seeing now run he gambit form wealthy business owners, to a chick I just started seeing who works for a not for profit that makes close to minimum wage. I have a date with a woman Tuesday and I have no idea what she does for a living... but she's hot... that's all that matters.
 

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The last three girls I dated were retarded with no college education. All of them fizzled out cause we have nothing in common. It's nice to have someone I can talk to about my job and who can relate to me. Now that I'm older, I'm not just looking for a fvck buddy (my sex drive is a lot lower than it used to be). I'm looking for someone who can hold a conversation and has more to offer than puss.

The hot as hell bartender will be spinning plates for sure. I would never get excited over banging one cause I'd be one of dozens.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This question probably depends on ones own education. I don't discriminate, but tend to find that I do better with women with an education. I'm not as good at just general bs convo about nothing, so I tend to struggle with women that don't know anything about the real world.
 

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I think for SS members, anything goes. If she is un-educated, smoker, lesbian, short hair, slut, Nazi, criminal, porn star, tattoo, mobster, its OK.

The ONLY deal breakers for SS members are;

1) She is fat
2) She has a child
3) She is older

These 3 items we draw the line. Anything else is good to go.
 
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