Would you consider this a "man slut"?

[Scars]

An 18 yr old senior in high school who's had sex with 9 different girls? Maybe it's because I'm from a small town that people think it's outrageous. But when I talk to my friends from bigger cities like in cali, they're sometimes seven fold that number.. do you think having a high number hurts your game or what? Do you ever lie about it? Just wondering..

 

[navyseal2101]

I just never say how many. 9 is a solid number I suppose, but numbers don't really matter, don't focus on that and don't reveal your numbers with people. Numbers don't equal success, anybody can have sex, and anybody can have sex alot, its more if you are satisfied and are having sex with the people you WANT to have sex with, not the fact your having sex.

 

[Bonafide]

uh...

buddy....guy....

since when are dudes considered sluts?

 

[penkitten]

small towns i swear... nothing better to do than talk about everyone else's sex lives because their own are lacking.

 

[SinJester]

Penkitten I agree and I hate it.

Just don't give out your numbers. A DJ doesn't kiss and tell. I've heard a few c/f responses that are good. Like when a girl asks you how many girls you have been with say 'how many stars are in the sky?' or something like 'it doesn't matter, I'm here with you now'.

I'm guessing whoever you are talking about is you? Trust me, most guys wish they had that problem. If anything big numbers = experiance = better game. Don't worry about it, it wont hurt you unless you let it.

 

[penkitten]

i agree with sinjester, you can always just say "a select few"

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

It doesnt hurt your game . Girls always want what they cant have . They always want what other women have . Its hardwired.

 

[IPalindromeI]

The only girls I have heard use the term 'man slut' were using it because they couldn't get in on the action themselves. I wouldn't worry about it. If you are being called a 'man slut' it is probably by a girl you wouldn't want anyway.

Your number is your business. There were some good deflection answers here that would work well in the 'what is your number' conversation. You aren't likely to get the truth from a girl (generally speaking, anyway), so no need to bare it yourself.

 

[guayaballer]

you could always say "enough to know what im doing"