"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pyros

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Hi,

Met this chick while dancing salsa. She was friendly and stuff. When we dance she was really closed to me and caressing my head and back which is unusual unless you want something to happend.

Anyway, I talked to her for a while, introduced to her some of my friends and asked for her number.

Two days later she texted me asking if Im gonna to X salsa club next Friday. I replied and asked her out for a drink.
She took several hours to reply and just said:
her: hi, Im going to X salsa club tonight with a female friend, come to join us.
me: I cant today.

She does not seem interested, does she?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Betterz

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Dude it's on, just go and salsa the fvck out of her (turn her on, kino hard) and then take her for drinks after and back to yours after if you smooth enough
 

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pyros said:
Hi,

Met this chick while dancing salsa. She was friendly and stuff. When we dance she was really closed to me and caressing my head and back which is unusual unless you want something to happend.

Anyway, I talked to her for a while, introduced to her some of my friends and asked for her number.

Two days later she texted me asking if Im gonna to X salsa club next Friday. I replied and asked her out for a drink.
She took several hours to reply and just said:
her: hi, Im going to X salsa club tonight with a female friend, come to join us.
me: I cant today.

She does not seem interested, does she?
she is carressing your head and back.....you get her number, thats like 1st down and goal on the one yard line and going for the field goal, she didnt want to swap numbers, she wanted to swap bodily fluids, you messed up, now she thinks you are a bit weird and not man enough
 

VladPatton

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A date with another person tagging along is not a date! Try again and get a date with just you two. If she doesn't agree, she's not interested, I don't care how hard she caresses your head during a dance.
 

pyros

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Do I invite her to join me and my friends next Friday to go to dance salsa?
or I do nothing and see if she asks me to join?

Thx.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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