"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Would like examples on how to connect emotionally with a girl during sex.
- Thread starter T-Mack
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Prototype_42
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say her name often
lock fingers with hers
don't ignore any part of her body with your mouth or your hands - especially the small of her back, along the spine, shoulders and neck
touch her neck and face with your hands - especially while the other hand is wrapped around her, on her thigh, etc
kiss a lot - and don't use your tongue everytime - ever watch 2 girls make out? they don't go overboard with the tongue, especially at first
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
That's guaranteed to make a connection.
Words are cheap, the gold is above.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Agreed.Prototype_42 said: