"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would any of you take a bi chick seriously?

Plutoman

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Hydrak said:
And this pretty much proves how pathetic most of the people in todays society are. And obviously, women are vastly overrepresented in branding themselves Bi, but it wouldn't really suprise me if the numbers would equal out if it wasn't so taboo to be gay as a guy.
I don't believe so, actually. Genetically it's much more suitable for women to be bi and share a dominant man than for two men that are competing to share a woman.

I could be wrong, but my gut says otherwise.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When a girl tells me she is BI the first thing I do is see if she is too much into the scene. If she is a regular girl that is just curious that's one thing. But if she is BI and a friggin scientologist also she's a nut job. If she's into anything like goth she's a nutjob. If she's bi and wears too much black, she's a nutjob.

Have you read about scientology? They have a friggin church prison in Cali. They believe in an alien called Zartan...
 
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