Much better but those reasons you gave in your earlier response made me cringe. Cool sounds like a good idea for expanding your social circle. For women not that effective but a larger social circle could result in more opportunities to meet women you wouldn't have otherwise metHere is a wild tought - Why not build a character, that people get drawn in naturally by and also have a good FB profile that conveys the same message.
Want anecdotal episodes from my life, where FB has bean usefull?
1) Since I upgradet my FB account, flakiness from Tinder has gone to 0%. More friends you have, more chance that you will have mutual connection on Tinder. Before going out, it is likely, that girl will ask her friend some things about you. If you are not a complete dip****, you will get a good referrence. No uphill battle. Some of my friends are allready making fun of me, how often theyr friends randomly ask about, what I am like.
2) Just this week, one guy approached me in Uni asking about a dance event my friend was organizing and I posted that I will be attending. Met one of his friends aswell. Bolth are cool, single dudes that probably will be able to wingman me (and I them aswell) in the future. *Boom* Expanding social circle.
3)I posted a pic, that got a like from this girl I met like 4 years ago. Guess who is now 19 and have grown into a fine woman. Shortly after a like, she messaged me, and we sheduled a date. It will be on Sunday. Ask me how it went then.
These are just recent ones. I do live a socially active life, and it is good to show it. You find people with common interests easier aswell.
In the end, it is easy and does not take a lot of effort. Do something awesome, take a picture, press a button to post it, and receive a ton of likes. How long did it take me? A minute? Also, it does form a bond if you take it with someone and tag them. I do awesome stuff all the time. I do it for me. I have created a habbit to post best moments in my life FB aswell. Nothing wrong with that.
It does feel good, to receive the likes. Is it necessity? No. But sex also is not a necessity, but we do it, because it feels good.
Yes there are people who are so awkward that only way them to construct a sentance is trough keyboard. No one is saying, that You should be that guy. Your people skills deteriorate rapidly only if you get sucked into it. They would deteriorate rapidly, if you decided to cut out ALL your distractions and learn to master violin for 5 years also. Also if you play video games video games non stop for 5 years. My unpopular opinion - both scenarios are equally bad.
Stop taking things so obsolete.
In the end, we all do what works for us. If You find it annoying and useless - don't use it. The point I tried to make, was I took an advice about ghosting FB years ago from a person, with a similar trail of taught as yours, and I come to regret it deeply, because of all the opportunities, I might have missed out on.
Also, it is not that much of an effort - the most effort I have made in regards of FB probably is now, when I try to defend its usefulness.
Exactly my point!
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