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Wondering what this girl is saying to her ex

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MattS

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Ive been seeing this girl for about a month. she was the "gf" of some dude for only like 2 months (he never had a gf before and hes 23 ---inexperienced), nothing serious atleast to me. She sleeps over my house like every night and i see her texting. she could be texting some of her friends but im sure its that dude sometimes. she comes over and says "uggghh robert sent me some mean text messages today at work".

a couple of days ago she talked to him in person at some coffee shop and told me she just wants to just be friends with him and told him that but he cant understand that i guess.

last night she got a text at 2:30am from that dude saying something like "youre fvcked up for doing this", cant really remember exactly though.

when we first started hanging out she said she cant handle rejection cause thats what that dude did to her cause she did some stupid kiddie sh1t to him i guess. now she walked away and he wants to be with her or something. im thinking shes stringing him along for making her feel rejected. anyone has any ideas as to what they might be saying to each other?

i know for a fact im better than that dude in many ways, if she wants him then she can go ahead but im just curious.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Never tolerate disrespect, and don't dignify her with spending your time talking or even THINKING about her "boyfriend of 2 months."
 
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ok, either this guy is really broken up over the fact their relationship is over. Or something is up. I couldn't tell you which. You gotta find out for yourself.
 
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Rhoto said:
Never tolerate disrespect, and don't dignify her with spending your time talking or even THINKING about her "boyfriend of 2 months."
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This. If she percieves you as someone insecure she'll most likely go back with her ex, even if she does not plan on doing that right now. Put things down and straight, you're the most important person in this relationship, act as such for crying out loud. Get the respect that you deserve and if she's not down with it, she's not for you.

-drtk
 
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