mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So my salsa class provides a small controlled environment of 12-30 people depending upon the day. It's actually usually at least one or two more guys than ladies on most days but occasionally guys are out numbered.
It provides me an opportunity to pair up with 6-12 ladies.
Most of the ladies are nuetral, some are highly positive with pairing with me and usually one or two are negative.
The one or two negative are very critical and attempt to slow me down. Her energy is saying "no". She resists being led. She was laughing kinda, she's goofy but she was hating my confidence and my power. I didn't get mad and it didn't make me fade. I told her she's not helping and I'm listening to the instructor not her. That shut her down. The next lady I paired with gave a good reception.
what I noticed about the lady that was trying to get a rise out of me as she was okay with physical betas who kissed her ass and acted like her female peer. And of course she deferred to the top alpha in the room our instructor.
With the ladies who liked me the energy was good, they made leading easier and made me look better.
All in all it's alot of fun and that micro environment shows that some won't like you and some will like you alot.
Getting stuck on one that doesn't is a waste of your time.
I had just read the post earlier in the day where btownbuck said he treats them like pitbulls, he doesn't take it personally because he understands their nature. I'm glad the guys pointed that out.
It provides me an opportunity to pair up with 6-12 ladies.
Most of the ladies are nuetral, some are highly positive with pairing with me and usually one or two are negative.
The one or two negative are very critical and attempt to slow me down. Her energy is saying "no". She resists being led. She was laughing kinda, she's goofy but she was hating my confidence and my power. I didn't get mad and it didn't make me fade. I told her she's not helping and I'm listening to the instructor not her. That shut her down. The next lady I paired with gave a good reception.
what I noticed about the lady that was trying to get a rise out of me as she was okay with physical betas who kissed her ass and acted like her female peer. And of course she deferred to the top alpha in the room our instructor.
With the ladies who liked me the energy was good, they made leading easier and made me look better.
All in all it's alot of fun and that micro environment shows that some won't like you and some will like you alot.
Getting stuck on one that doesn't is a waste of your time.
I had just read the post earlier in the day where btownbuck said he treats them like pitbulls, he doesn't take it personally because he understands their nature. I'm glad the guys pointed that out.