Women's biggest weapon against you, never forget this

[Hoodie]

Hurting your reputation.

I don't think enough men are aware of this.
They assume what is said between you and your partner stays between the two of you.
But women don't play by the same rules men play by.
Their weapon is hurting other's reputation, if they can and have a reason to do so.
And the number one way to do that, is to share with others something embarassing or pathetic you did or say, IF you acted in any way pathetic of embarassing (don't).

You will also notice a woman's attraction is often linked to the degree a man acts pathetic or not.
As it's this very act that gives a woman power over him or not (gives her ammunition to damage him).

This is also why you should always strive to be an overall great person, because the likelihood of you acting in a pathetic way is drastically reduced, even eliminated.
And if you are not an overall great person, you will act pathetically, and she will potentially let everyone know, if she has a reason to do so.

Make sure you're an overall great guy, and don't give her any ammo she can use to damage your repuation and also in the process ruin her attraction to you.
This might be one of the most important things to remember, imo.
It's a lose - lose situation.

Lastly it can also add to your reputation if you don't behave in any way pathetic.

So it goes both ways.

 

[Hoodie]

Hurting your reputation.

I don't think enough men are aware of this.
They assume what is said between you and your partner stays between the two of you.
But women don't play by the same rules men play by.
Their weapon is hurting other's reputation, if they can and have a reason to do so.
And the number one way to do that, is to share with others something embarassing or pathetic you did or say, IF you acted in any way pathetic of embarassing (don't).

You will also notice a woman's attraction is often linked to the degree a man acts pathetic or not.
As it's this very act that gives a woman power over him or not (gives her ammunition to damage him).

This is also why you should always strive to be an overall great person, because the likelihood of you acting in a pathetic way is drastically reduced, even eliminated.
And if you are not an overall great person, you will act pathetically, and she will potentially let everyone know, if she has a reason to do so.

Make sure you're an overall great guy, and don't give her any ammo she can use to damage your repuation and also in the process ruin her attraction to you.
This might be one of the most important things to remember, imo.
It's a lose - lose situation.

Lastly it can also add to your reputation if you don't behave in any way pathetic.

So it goes both ways.

Have to add, that you can use this to your advantage!
Considering how you act with a girl, most likely will be shared with those she knows.

If you're a great guy and you have good game, that's basically free advertisment to all her friends...

Think of women as potential megaphones, and act accordingly.
To either your benefit or detriment.

 

[Solomon]

I agree with the first half but the 2nd half not so much

How many "Great" men have been lied on, by false allegations, whether DV, sexual harassment, and otherwise? When I was 23 I had a psycho ex-girlfriend who lied to everyone that I beat her, and even called the cops on me. I never touched her, and luckily for me, when she made those allegations, I was at work, which my boss verified and the video would have verified as well. The cops let me go, now mnd you this girl s still trying to get back with me after that and also faking being pregnant

hell hath no fury like a woman scorned is a real deal, that's not to say as a man you shouldn't be a great person and respect women but if a woman feels a certain type of way they don't give a shyt and some women really want to see a man's life destroyed etc

 

[Hoodie]

I agree with the first half but the 2nd half not so much

How many "Great" men have been lied on, by false allegations, whether DV, sexual harassment, and otherwise? When I was 23 I had a psycho ex-girlfriend who lied to everyone that I beat her, and even called the cops on me. I never touched her, and luckily for me, when she made those allegations, I was at work, which my boss verified and the video would have verified as well. The cops let me go, now mnd you this girl s still trying to get back with me after that and also faking being pregnant

hell hath no fury like a woman scorned is a real deal, that's not to say as a man you shouldn't be a great person and respect women but if a woman feels a certain type of way they don't give a shyt and some women really want to see a man's life destroyed etc

I agree, I don't think many men are aware of the damage potential they have.
Because men think: Oh, she's not physically intimidating, what can she do?
Alot, since reputation is so important to men.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

I had a female "friend" that wanted to date me when I was studying at university and right after that period. She was a possesive trad-wife type and of dominant character and I preferred to be free at that time and already knew my preference for submissive female types being of dominant character myself - but I liked her as a person and respected her intelligence and traditional upbringing - at one of our coffee meetings, I was kind of tired of her in-between-words suggestions that we should get together so I disclosed to her that I was meeting other girl (i.e. sleeping with other girl) romantically and that she should meet some guy that will be good for her. I saw that she was angry when I said that. She never wanted to meet with me again after that meeting,

I tried to catch up with her (friendly level only) on social media year and half later after that meeting - she accepted my invitation, exchanged few messages with me, then after few weeks deleted me from her friends list.

Fast forward eight years later my other female friend disclosed to me that that girl spread lies about me going after her, about me pretty much begging her to be with her (LOL) and me getting shot down by her when I (presumably) tried to get romantic with the female friend LOL - she pretty much tried to get some form of revenge on me for hurting her feelings and also paint image of me being a begging wuss in case any other of our common female acquaintances were interested in me (to shot my chances in that social circle whatsoever). What a pleasant person she was, right? Evading dating her was like evading extinction-level asteroid hit.

Direct hostility is often launched in form of manipulation of AMOGs - former BF of one of the girls I slept with wanted to beat me up for sleeping with the girl (didn't matter that she slept with me because he cheated on her first) - but found out about me doing her only after I implied to her that I am not serious about her (i.e. I was pumping to dump eventually).

Do not meet girls you do not want to sleep with unless its about business.

If you sleep with more than 1 woman, never disclose this fact to other women or men as they may betray you out of envy. If you are sleeping with a woman, do not disclose the truth about your attachment level if you are not planning lvl up for relationship with her - woman will get eventually resentful and will try to get back at you for toying with her, this way or the other even if she will still be interested in your dck (girl that former boyfriend wanted to beat me, still spread her legs for me for some time after that event happened - she was like "sorry, you made me sad and I told him. Wanna fck?").

Women do not act directly, if they want to hurt you, they will use reputation hits, spread lies about you or mock you behind your back, they also use other men to fkcp you up (kind of reminded me also when I told one slutty girl that was into me during holidays in my high school years to fkc off when her behaviour irritated me beyond my resistance to other ppl bs - fast forward few hours later her "new boyfriend (i.e. some jackass that was second-choice option) stormed my room and berated me that "it's not how you should talk to the girl" - my opinion is as it was at that time - that I can speak with a any stupid person how I wish to speak and no one will teach me otherwise - guy backed down after he understood that either he will support his words with actions or he can get the fkc out of my room - guy picked option no.2 (smart as at that time I was really training a lot).

TLDR: Seize opportunities, evade troubles, if ppl get hostile or you perceive them as angry types, evade them. Telling them truth will only hurt them as truth is what hurts other people that want to believe in lies the most - it applies both to men and women, therefore feel free to lie if that will keep you out of troubles and make other people happy about themselves. Watch out for ppl that envy you - its the best to play the underdog in every social game as ppl will root for you. The most important thing is to be sincere with yourself, to know your own strong and weak points, If you can't properly assess that, ppl will use you or toy with you a lot. Especially women.

 

[plumber]

now... think.... when your listening to a girl tell bad about some dude. you just let her do it so long as she will spread for you, or might spread for you. probably 75% plus of the stories never happened or not the way it is told.

your describe social circle game. its really like that. the alpha of the group and or the moma of the group can shut it down if they want to. if they allow it, then they wanted you out. else they will shut it down or move the girl out.

 

[Bigpapa]

Hurting your reputation.

Guys behave the same

 

[Gamisch]

Hurting your reputation.

I don't think enough men are aware of this.
They assume what is said between you and your partner stays between the two of you.
But women don't play by the same rules men play by.
Their weapon is hurting other's reputation, if they can and have a reason to do so.
And the number one way to do that, is to share with others something embarassing or pathetic you did or say, IF you acted in any way pathetic of embarassing (don't).

You will also notice a woman's attraction is often linked to the degree a man acts pathetic or not.
As it's this very act that gives a woman power over him or not (gives her ammunition to damage him).

This is also why you should always strive to be an overall great person, because the likelihood of you acting in a pathetic way is drastically reduced, even eliminated.
And if you are not an overall great person, you will act pathetically, and she will potentially let everyone know, if she has a reason to do so.

Make sure you're an overall great guy, and don't give her any ammo she can use to damage your repuation and also in the process ruin her attraction to you.
This might be one of the most important things to remember, imo.
It's a lose - lose situation.

Lastly it can also add to your reputation if you don't behave in any way pathetic.

So it goes both ways.

Id even say that reputation yet is something toxic that's the ocean, as it eventually will evaporate in to nothingness. There are so many people going through different and stages that what you did 3 years ago won't matter, even more so in a bigger city

The biggest weapon women have against you is their mind. Their vindictiveness. A woman can easily tear a man up, plenty of men never reached their full potential due to being teared apart by a woman. M

Most men actually put all their chips in life on the fickle mind's of women. Literally a homeless bum who can get women will be more respected than a man who lives by law, makes great money and is actually a nice person. The latter might even give it all up to get closer to " what the bum gets".

 

[Hoodie]

Id even say that reputation yet is something toxic that's the ocean, as it eventually will evaporate in to nothingness. There are so many people going through different and stages that what you did 3 years ago won't matter, even more so in a bigger city

The biggest weapon women have against you is their mind. Their vindictiveness. A woman can easily tear a man up, plenty of men never reached their full potential due to being teared apart by a woman. M

Most men actually put all their chips in life on the fickle mind's of women. Literally a homeless bum who can get women will be more respected than a man who lives by law, makes great money and is actually a nice person. The latter might even give it all up to get closer to " what the bum gets".

I agree with the first part, people forget extremely fast. Even something bad that happened in your own life, you usually won't feel bad about in couple of weeks. One of the wonders of life.

The idea of the bum getting success with women is something I don't subscribe to. I personally think it's something that's romanticised.
Perhaps the idea is that if you're good with women, you will mostly always be good with women, regardless of money and that makes sense. If that's the case, you might aswell also have money for your own well being and eventual family/kids.

 

[Gamisch]

I agree with the first part, people forget extremely fast. Even something bad that happened in your own life, you usually won't feel bad about in couple of weeks. One of the wonders of life.

The idea of the bum getting success with women is something I don't subscribe to. I personally think it's something that's romanticised.
Perhaps the idea is that if you're good with women, you will mostly always be good with women, regardless of money and that makes sense. If that's the case, you might aswell also have money for your own well being and eventual family/kids.

Well I'd even say that you'll become good at the things you focus on most.

A bum/ prisoner/ thug/ low life ect can focus on nothing but women. Mind you, there are 4 billion women who are actually looking for men...so the probability of finding TONS of them is high.

Statistically it's easier to get a woman than.it is to make great money. Yet ,amazingly enough we live in an era where getting p00sy is viewed as more valuable than getting a great career. Matter a fact ,in my culture many men willingly choose women over careers. And not in the romantic way, but by cos playing the " attractive bum" .

It takes a rare string man to be able to understand this.

 

[Hoodie]

Well I'd even say that you'll become good at the things you focus on most.

A bum/ prisoner/ thug/ low life ect can focus on nothing but women. Mind you, there are 4 billion women who are actually looking for men...so the probability of finding TONS of them is high.

Statistically it's easier to get a woman than.it is to make great money. Yet ,amazingly enough we live in an era where getting p00sy is viewed as more valuable than getting a great career. Matter a fact ,in my culture many men willingly choose women over careers. And not in the romantic way, but by cos playing the " attractive bum" .

It takes a rare string man to be able to understand this.

You're right, it's a question of priority. But how does a bum work out the logistics? If he doesn't have money for his own place to invite women to, doesn't have money to take a woman out, etc.

 

[Westminster]

I agree with the first half but the 2nd half not so much

How many "Great" men have been lied on, by false allegations, whether DV, sexual harassment, and otherwise? When I was 23 I had a psycho ex-girlfriend who lied to everyone that I beat her, and even called the cops on me. I never touched her, and luckily for me, when she made those allegations, I was at work, which my boss verified and the video would have verified as well. The cops let me go, now mnd you this girl s still trying to get back with me after that and also faking being pregnant

hell hath no fury like a woman scorned is a real deal, that's not to say as a man you shouldn't be a great person and respect women but if a woman feels a certain type of way they don't give a shyt and some women really want to see a man's life destroyed etc

You've hit the nail on the head.

 

[Gamisch]

You're right, it's a question of priority. But how does a bum work out the logistics? If he doesn't have money for his own place to invite women to, doesn't have money to take a woman out, etc.

Well , apparently we have a few examples of those roaming the forum...I feel like it's the worst example of what a man should strive to be..

Let's not forget that sometimes a man of lesser value is easy to manage by a woman. She doesn't has to rise up to a higher level, and by supplying and facilitating a man she has control instead of being controlled.

I've seen this my entire life, when even female members female family members would date men with nothing going on ony to constantly cheat on them with better men whenever possible.

I've learned that being a low life individual who depends on women isn't as romantic as it looks at first glance.

 

[Gamisch]

I have to digress.. somewhat.

Id like to add that women might indeed hurt your rep, thus is extremely important to be extremely cautious about the information you give her.

A woman who wants Schadenfreude will go all on and use everything against you. If she knows where you work, she might call your work and tell you did xyz. If she knows your baby mom she might contact her and plot against you.

The vindictiveness of a hurt woman goes deep. She might use everything she knows about you against you in areas where you least expect it.